FOB having baby

[mememe84]

Hi everyone just found out that FOB having another baby his mother confirmed this an also told me his Trollope was pregnant in October too. I'm literally shaking an feel sick to pit of my stomach it's only been 1year an he continues to hurt me like this. His answer was well I don't need to tell you anything it's nothing to do with you x

 

[Jade--x]

Aww hun

My ex had a baby with another girl beginning of this year although in all honesty I was never bothered and I also had another baby with my partner last year.

I see it as my life is nothing to do with my ex and his is nothing to do with me the only thing he needs to know about my life is about the child we had together. He doesn't entirely see it the same as he asks my mum alot of questions about my other son and my partner that are none of his business.

I know it's easier said than done but the best thing for your own sanity is to just move on and get on with your little one.x

 

[mememe84]

To top it off too he's also left work so no csa for me anymore so selfish this man bet he didn't consider his daughter in his decision x

 

[Laura2919]

I can understand that it hurts you you'd think he'd have more compassion but do they ever?
I'm waiting for the day FOB says he and his gf are expecting but tbh it will be stupid of him. He's not that interested in the twins, let alone going to have another.

 

[Ceejay123]

Maybe this will be a push in the right direction for you to get over it honey. Is the FOB part of your LO's life? If so, try to think positively. Your LO is about to have a brother or sister, they're going to need you to be strong for them. Try not to think about your ex and what he has, you have your little one, you have everything you need . x

 

[mememe84]

Maybe this will be a push in the right direction for you to get over it honey. Is the FOB part of your LO's life? If so, try to think positively. Your LO is about to have a brother or sister, they're going to need you to be strong for them. Try not to think about your ex and what he has, you have your little one, you have everything you need . x

He comes for 4 whole hours a week. The thing that bothered me the most is that hes given up work so I no longer get any money from him he's not thinking of his daughter when he done this. I'm not bothered that he's having a baby I'd rather he just disappear an leave me alone x

 

[Ceejay123]

Bless you Honey I can't really relate I guess. But I hope things work out for you. Do what's best for you and your LO . It's all you can do. Keep your chin up and hold your head high babe. x

 

[Dream.dream]

Im in the same boat hun, it blows

especially since my sons dad has decided since hes having another he cant afford to pay his child supprort, and support his girlfriend while she sits on her but with no job through her pregnancy, he got her pregnant with in days of meeting her, and it pisses me off to,she messaged me a few months ago telling me that i need to back off and that hes DS father adn should get to have him whenever he wants and blah blah blah. Clearly FOB hasnt told her all his parental rights had been revoked by a judge, he only is allowed supervised visitiation 2 times a week, and if i wanted i could move to guatemala and he has no say.

if you need to talk pm me please nice to know there is someone else facing the same thing, i dont get why these guys think they should have more when they dont take care of the 1st 100%

 

[mememe84]

It seems that way she got pregnant an he left work. She also text me on Christmas night pretending to be FOB telling me how I need to get over him and I'm happy now and I always will be! She seems crazy if am honest I just replied shut up you don't know what goes on when he's here an I never got a reply she went home an told him I was texting that when he comes here we jump into bed lol

 

[Ceejay123]

That's out of order of them both. No way your ex's new partner should contact you like that, it's nothing to do with her. My OH has another child, I wouldn't have contacted his Mum being abusive or anything like that, it's childish and immature.It shows a complete lack of respect! x

 

[mememe84]

That's out of order of them both. No way your ex's new partner should contact you like that, it's nothing to do with her. My OH has another child, I wouldn't have contacted his Mum being abusive or anything like that, it's childish and immature.It shows a complete lack of respect! x

It's not the first time she has text off his phone. But she's convinced every time he comes here we get straight into bed but I told him she doesn't trust him an it's his own fault cos they done it on me so she's bound to think like that. X

 

[Ceejay123]

That's true. If she thinks that she shouldn't even be with him to be honest! Better to be single, than to be constantly worried your OH is up to no good! x

 

[mememe84]

My thoughts exactly. I know I couldn't live like that anymore x