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Hi everyone I haven't posted before, i've been lurking a little but I need some advice. I'll also start posting regularly, everyone seems lovely on here.
Basically, before I found out i was pregnant, the baby's father (my fiance) sadly died in a car accident and I'm due at the end of march
I've always thought that I'd give the baby his surname as he's still the father, even though they'll never meet but my mum is completely against it, she said "he's gone and not coming back, so whats the point?" but I feel like I should use his surname.
the rest of my family and my fiance's family are saying it's my decision, as 'the last thing I need is people nagging me about what to name it' and it's not uncommon for my mum to nag.
What would you do?
Basically, before I found out i was pregnant, the baby's father (my fiance) sadly died in a car accident and I'm due at the end of march
I've always thought that I'd give the baby his surname as he's still the father, even though they'll never meet but my mum is completely against it, she said "he's gone and not coming back, so whats the point?" but I feel like I should use his surname.
the rest of my family and my fiance's family are saying it's my decision, as 'the last thing I need is people nagging me about what to name it' and it's not uncommon for my mum to nag.
What would you do?