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So, so, so sorry for your loss... In my opinion, I'd give the child my own last name. Or hyphenate it. But, I'd want my last name to be the same as my child's, and if I did ever marry in the future, I'd let my child decide whether or not to change their last name, and hopefully I'd find someone my child loved so much that they'd want to have their last name. Yes, I do know someone who loves her "step" father so much that she decided to take on his last name with her mother. I'm NOT saying that's even in your head right now, but could be a reality in the future, and I do hope for lots of happiness for you and your child.