ProzacQueen
Single Mummy of 2
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hello other single mummies :wave:
Think i have posted something similar here before but is still troubling me so just after opinions really. My ex and i split in Jan when he went off with the OW (she's welcome to him) i was 6 weeks pregnant with DD2. he had no involvement with the pregnancy, didnt even ask after her when she was born. didnt even find out her name until she was about 8 weeks old.
he has since then spent a whopping 30mins with her at my home after i pushed him into trying to start a bond. He then emailed to say he wanted to take her out by himself as it was too awkward coming to my house.
we have our own agreement of contact with our eldest DD, he keeps saying he is going to go to court to get an order for whatever contact he wants just for his peace of mind. he has been saying this for months now and brings it up everytime he doesnt get his own way to try and bully me into doing what he wants. So when i said he couldnt take DD2 off his own he said ok he'll just add her name to the contact order so he can have her when he wants. That was several weeks ago and he hasnt seen or even asked after her since
They have no bond whatsoever!! will that be taken into account *if* he actually follows through and takes me to court?
what would be a reasonable age that a baby could be taken away from mum by fob? im dreading it but know it will happen eventually
Think i have posted something similar here before but is still troubling me so just after opinions really. My ex and i split in Jan when he went off with the OW (she's welcome to him) i was 6 weeks pregnant with DD2. he had no involvement with the pregnancy, didnt even ask after her when she was born. didnt even find out her name until she was about 8 weeks old.
he has since then spent a whopping 30mins with her at my home after i pushed him into trying to start a bond. He then emailed to say he wanted to take her out by himself as it was too awkward coming to my house.
we have our own agreement of contact with our eldest DD, he keeps saying he is going to go to court to get an order for whatever contact he wants just for his peace of mind. he has been saying this for months now and brings it up everytime he doesnt get his own way to try and bully me into doing what he wants. So when i said he couldnt take DD2 off his own he said ok he'll just add her name to the contact order so he can have her when he wants. That was several weeks ago and he hasnt seen or even asked after her since
They have no bond whatsoever!! will that be taken into account *if* he actually follows through and takes me to court?
what would be a reasonable age that a baby could be taken away from mum by fob? im dreading it but know it will happen eventually
