ShanandBoc
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Found out yesterday one of my husbands long time friends took his own life We are both so devastated......esp my husband. He has never had anyone close to him pass away before. He was only 25. Such a bright successful guy and no one even knew anything was wrong or why he did it. We had a tiny wedding and he was 1 of 3 close friends my husband invited. My DH used to share an apartment with him. We hadnt seen much of him recently as he was a busy guy, worked full time and studied and u know how busy life gets! Any death is a tragedy and ive lost quite a few loved ones but this just has such sadness to it that ive never felt before and my husband is really grieving. I just dont know what to do. And what makes it even worse is it happened 8 weeks ago and only just found out as hadnt spoken to him for a few months so we missed his funeral. No one told us. I guess they just figured everyone knew Looking back i said to DH that he had deleted his facebook but didnt think anything of it at the time and had chatted to him online not long beforehand and mutual friends they had werent on FB so we never found out that way......Dh found out from a mutual friend at his new job who thought my hubby knew and asked if he went to his funeral.