Three months ago, my friend and co-worker lost her son at 21-weeks.
Needless to say, it was a horrible, horrible experience for her and her family. The story she told me ripped my heart out it was so sad.
Since that time, Ive been on eggshells with her, as shortly thereafter, I found out I was pregnant. I havent told her yet (Im 11-weeks) but Im sure shell hear about it soon enough as my boss already knows and hes a bit of a gossiper. Id hate for her to find out through the grapevine, but I just dont know how to approach the subject w/o hurting her. Especially, with her due date approaching. I just dont know what to say. Im ashamed to admit it, but Ive been avoiding her because I dont want to remind her of her loss (though Im sure she doesnt reminding). I dont want to seem uncaring and then again, I dont want to keep poking at her wound, so to speak.
What should I say, if anything, on her due date?
How do I tell her Im pregnant?
How do I handle this in a manner most comfortable for her?
Needless to say, it was a horrible, horrible experience for her and her family. The story she told me ripped my heart out it was so sad.
Since that time, Ive been on eggshells with her, as shortly thereafter, I found out I was pregnant. I havent told her yet (Im 11-weeks) but Im sure shell hear about it soon enough as my boss already knows and hes a bit of a gossiper. Id hate for her to find out through the grapevine, but I just dont know how to approach the subject w/o hurting her. Especially, with her due date approaching. I just dont know what to say. Im ashamed to admit it, but Ive been avoiding her because I dont want to remind her of her loss (though Im sure she doesnt reminding). I dont want to seem uncaring and then again, I dont want to keep poking at her wound, so to speak.
What should I say, if anything, on her due date?
How do I tell her Im pregnant?
How do I handle this in a manner most comfortable for her?