LJaydow
Jack, Elizabeth
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My best friend has recently told me she is making herseslf sick. She was hospitalised a couple of weeks back because she ruptured her oesophagus and has had to have stitches in it.
A few days ago, her mum had enough of everything and kicked her out. My friend has bipolar and is refusing medication and psychiatric help. Her mums mum died recently and they have both been struggling to deal with this. She is living with me now as she was staying in a hostel and I couldnt see her out on her own. She has tried ringing her mum but she wont answer the phone to her and wont answer the door if she goes over. Her younger brother keeps phoning her asking when she is coming home.
Since she has been here (3 days) she hasnt kept anything down. I asked her if she is still doing it and she said occasionally but she hasnt kept a meal down. She came downstairs with bloodshot eyes and denied having been sick even though I heard her.
My HUGE concern is that I found blood down the side of the toilet and in the sink this morning. I dont know what to say or do? She wont be able to stay here forever as she is in my OH's daughters room, but of course I wont throw her out or anything. I am on edge all the time because I have a phobia of sick but I just keep thinking im going to find her collapsed somewhere if she carries on. She is covered in bruises because she isnt getting any nutrition, and she is now a size 10 from a 16 which has taken the space of a few months.
I just dont know what to do - she makes excuses every mealtime to go to the shops, out to the car, going for a bath etc, and i cant just sit here and let it go
A few days ago, her mum had enough of everything and kicked her out. My friend has bipolar and is refusing medication and psychiatric help. Her mums mum died recently and they have both been struggling to deal with this. She is living with me now as she was staying in a hostel and I couldnt see her out on her own. She has tried ringing her mum but she wont answer the phone to her and wont answer the door if she goes over. Her younger brother keeps phoning her asking when she is coming home.
Since she has been here (3 days) she hasnt kept anything down. I asked her if she is still doing it and she said occasionally but she hasnt kept a meal down. She came downstairs with bloodshot eyes and denied having been sick even though I heard her.
My HUGE concern is that I found blood down the side of the toilet and in the sink this morning. I dont know what to say or do? She wont be able to stay here forever as she is in my OH's daughters room, but of course I wont throw her out or anything. I am on edge all the time because I have a phobia of sick but I just keep thinking im going to find her collapsed somewhere if she carries on. She is covered in bruises because she isnt getting any nutrition, and she is now a size 10 from a 16 which has taken the space of a few months.
I just dont know what to do - she makes excuses every mealtime to go to the shops, out to the car, going for a bath etc, and i cant just sit here and let it go