yep, but that all started as soon as i got engaged aged 20....
they were all at uni and living the single life and i was settling down with the love of my life.... all got a little worse when we got married last year, then came to a head where i actually cut a few ties when we announced we were having a baby.... one gal i've known for years actually suggested we take a trip to mainland uk to visit a "clinic"..... (abortion is illegal in N.I.) i could have slapped her! my motto is tho, if they aren't happy accepting "grown ups" as friends, they may not have been great friends at all in the first place.... harsh i know but it's how i saw it in my situation...