plutosblue
Mum of 2 & duffed.
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Hi guys, just having a little rant but do you ever feel like you are being walked over?
Whenever I seem to be having a good day I get people asking me to swap shifts at work, borrow my car etc etc its frustrating
To cut a long story short my SIL always asks to borrow my car, but she isn't insured on anything (and has written off 3 cars, red light right there.)
I loaned it to her once to use for a day as her friends father was on his last legs and they desperatly needed help to get to the hospital, since that day shes asked if she can borrow it quite a few times, and I feel frustrated, I have started to say no, but then I feel bad for saying no, but would you lend your car out to someone who is not insured and drives like a nutter? Or am I being mean?
And then there is a girl at work who wants to swap shifts, I don't mind swapping shifts I mean I have asked her a couple times, but it seems like every month she is asking me to swap now, and its starting to get frustrating, I know I always get the day back the week after, but I like my days off as they stand, and I know I am not the only one who is on that shift pattern, just seems like I am badgered into it because I am her friend. (She is being my bridesmaid).
I feel like a scrooge but I don't want to be walked over What would you guys do? Am I being unreasonable?
Thankyou for listening
Whenever I seem to be having a good day I get people asking me to swap shifts at work, borrow my car etc etc its frustrating
To cut a long story short my SIL always asks to borrow my car, but she isn't insured on anything (and has written off 3 cars, red light right there.)
I loaned it to her once to use for a day as her friends father was on his last legs and they desperatly needed help to get to the hospital, since that day shes asked if she can borrow it quite a few times, and I feel frustrated, I have started to say no, but then I feel bad for saying no, but would you lend your car out to someone who is not insured and drives like a nutter? Or am I being mean?
And then there is a girl at work who wants to swap shifts, I don't mind swapping shifts I mean I have asked her a couple times, but it seems like every month she is asking me to swap now, and its starting to get frustrating, I know I always get the day back the week after, but I like my days off as they stand, and I know I am not the only one who is on that shift pattern, just seems like I am badgered into it because I am her friend. (She is being my bridesmaid).
I feel like a scrooge but I don't want to be walked over What would you guys do? Am I being unreasonable?
Thankyou for listening