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annawrigley

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I love my dad and he has been a great support to me but I am so angry right now.
He has Noah every Thursday and he came to get him at 10 today, he was last fed at 8.45. He's just brought him back now and he's not been fed AT ALL, in 7 hours! He normally feeds every 3 hours and has missed his lunch too. My poor baby is starving!! I'm feeding him now. Apparently he 'wouldn't take it' well he's taking it just fine now! He gave me a bottle and said why don't you give him this, I asked when he made it and he said 12, I said no it will be off it only keeps for an hour. He just said oh he'll be fine I've given him older milk than that before :growlmad:
Also last week I had a horrible scare falling asleep forgetting Noah was still next to me and he fell off my bed. Luckily he was ok but I specifically told him never to put him on a bed because he can and will roll off.
Well guess what today he put him on a bed and he fell off!!!!!
I'm so angry right now, he's never having him again!
 
aww hun dont really no what to say, wen ever i put my neice or nephew on the bed i but pillows eaither side of them, good luck x
 
my mom is the same way some days, we set strict rules and told them we dont mean to sound rude but if u want time with him thats fine but u will follow the rules, if u cant u can stop nd visit him here.... so far its worked i hope u guys can come to some agreement so u can have a few hrs to urself and he can see his grandpa :hugs: hope ur alright tho!
 
Aaaw hugs hun :)
Tbh i think your making the right decision (sp) to not let your dad have him again, i think he was out of order tbh. Glad Noah is ok though xxx
 
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Aw hun I can imagine how frustrating it must be someone not listening and following your routine. Its awful he hasn't been fed in that long no way would Laila go that long between! I hope he's ok and not too hungry :hugs: as for putting him on the bed after you said not too because he can roll off thats just careless really and I think you're making the right decision in not letting him have Noah again.
 
hope your ok hun can imagine how pissed off u r! at least lil man is getting fed now and hes back safe with his mummy x x
 
My mother and his mother are the same way. We tell them not to do something and the assholes do it anyway!!!!!!! Theyre lucky to be seeing my daughter at all. Sorry your dad was out of line today :/. Hope noah is alright
 
I hope your both okay, i think your making the right choice !
x
 
My MIL is the same, she gave OHs 2 year old nephew a powerade energy drink at 8pm the other day even though she was specifically told he could only have his water and also not to buy him sweets and she did!! She wonders why i don't want her to look after my LO lol. People never follow your routine they will keep them awake later for their own pleasure or let them sleep all day so its easy for them and then you pay for it later! I've only let someone else look after him 3 times and this is why!! My new theory is 'if i want it done properly, i'll do it myself'. So true these days!

Sorry your dad done what he did. Its horrible isn't it, when you have trust in someone and they ruin it :(
 
I'd be annoyed too. If you didn't feed summer she'd scream until she got it so noway could somebody get away with it. Does he understand why your so annoyed? xx
 
Awe :hugs:. Yeah I don't blame you. My mum gets really pissed off when I give her strict rules with Evelyn. imfact, she's only had her on her own once because when we got home she said she'd do what she wanted with her because she wasn't going to change her routine for Evelyn so I said she's never having her again and I'm sticking to it because I can't trust her now. Sorry for the rant... Hope Noah is enjoying his food now bless him xx
 

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