Fuming ....

[young-mummy]

so for you that dont know my FOB has another child and im due next month,
anyway i get A phone call last night telling me he has a rocking crib he bought for his first born and it never been used, so then i was expectin him to pass it onto our bby as i dont have one yet, and everything else i have bought myself, so on this phone call he goes on to tell me how beautiful it is and he has all the bedding with it.. and then he says.. it was £130 and he didnt want to waste it so he gave it to his brothers gf wow am i angry, his family dont evan know my baby is his, so i stayed calm and asked him to come clean tell his family and before they pick it up could he make sure his own child has one before others so for the past 24 hours ive been called a shit mum because i should have got one months ago.
and ive also had hed rather be havin a baby with a drug addict than me because i always gotta have the best in life and im greedy for asking for it ...

am i in the wrong here?

 

[littlekitten8]

No ur not in the wrong. I can't believe he didn't even think to ask you if you wanted it first. I would be majorly annoyed. Massive hugs hunni x

 

[young-mummy]

im just SO annoyed. telling me to go buy one my self when he had a perfectly good one there. also evan if i didnt need it.. which i did.. why wouldnt he have kept one at his house for when baby was there?... he says he was doing them a favour because thery couldnt afford one. well im not being funny. they have just bought a house together and planned there baby, if they couldnt afford a crib why plan a baby ?! me and FOB didnt plan my little baby but its the best thing EVER happened to me, and altho i cant afford things on my own being 18 i am doing the very best i can in making sure my baby has best but abit of help of him would have been this crib as he has not financialy or emotionally supported me. i am sooo angry .. sorry to rant xxx

 

[littlekitten8]

Thats ok. We all have our little rants. Thats what we are here for! I'm not surprised you are so angry. I would try to explain that to him x

 

[young-mummy]

oh believe me i have tryed.. he has now said.. unless i get back with him and give my baby his surname he will not tell his family hes my childs father as he wont hurt them like that!... but hell hurt me emotionally because thats a different story.. i was actualy going to ring his family home phone and tell them but then i think, is there much point because i told them in the past and they didnt believe me x

 

[littlekitten8]

I would just turn up. Kind of hard to fake a 36 week bump eh?

 

[18singlemom2b]

my ex wont admit to his family that im pregnant with his child either. he doesn't want to look bad...hahahaha wowww

 

[Becyboo__x]

If you didnt want to tell them face to face or you couldn't if you know where his parents live write them a little letter and say your pregnant with there son's baby if there decent enough they will believe it .. but they might turn around and say they don't believe its his or something if he doesnt admit it.. which leaves it all in a horrible situation but i would just tell them somehow might knock some sense into him xx

 

[young-mummy]

thanks ladies. I text him saying he comes clean or we wont evan have a friendship, so he told her last night and apparently she is going to ring me today so we will see what she says wieght of both of our shoulders,
now he doesnt want anything to do with me unless throu a solicitor as i wont give my baby his surname :/ so ive agreed if he wants to contact me he can about the baby if not i will speek to a solicitor to arange contact when baby is born. calmed down alot now, and just off to go buy my own crib lol xx

 

[littlekitten8]

Thats good hun. Glad you got things more sorted. Hope she is ok with you.

 

[young-mummy]

and littlekitten8 - there is no hiding my bump hahahaa!!!
men are such A holes!!!
becyboo - thats what happened in the past. i wnt round to there house and showed them my 12 week scan and sat there showing off my baby when he had told her its not his.. i must have looked like a right IDIOT but now i dont lol
18singlemomtobe- im always here if you want to compare/share storys... you seem in a similar situation as me

xxxx

 

[littlekitten8]

Lol at 36 weeks I was mahoooosive! Turned around and knocked things over kind of massive lol.

 

[young-mummy]

hahah i always try get in the shower just using one door.. it doesnt happen though hahahah xx

 

[littlekitten8]

Lol my shower cubicle was tiny. Had to give up showering and wash my hair over the bath instead! It was hilarious. Will post a pic if u like?

 

[young-mummy]

yeah that will be funny. sure post away

 

[purpledahlia]

It never fails to surprise me how bloody selfish some men can be!! Jeez! Glad its sorted!

 

[littlekitten8]

Cant get the picture to work grrrr