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[bubblz82]

Currently I am working with a woman who is due in December. There are times when I find it hard seeing her blossom. Today I found out how hard she is finding it. I knew she was but didnt know how much.
She is leaving work early on maternity. Partly because of me. I do have hard days ,12 weeks later ,but I want to help her enjoy her last days.

How do I help her enjoy these last weeks. She should be able to answer questions when asked, she isn't because of me.

Any one got advice or ideas please

 

[SweetPotatoPi]

Gosh bubblz, it's a difficult situation all around. It seems like you would need to do a fair amount of pretending things are ok/getting better in order to make your coworker feel more comfortable. If I were still in a place where seeing her was still tearing me up I don't think I'd be strong enough to fake it. If you're up for it maybe you could plan a small baby shower type of celebration where the coworkers all pitch in? Maybe someone else has some better ideas for you though so bumpity!

 

[bubblz82]

I have my moments. I will get my tine to blossom. It is her time now. I don't want to be the bad part in years ti come when she tells her pregnancy story. I have an idea of a wee fun photo shoot for her and the girls. If im not strong that day another girl will take over. At least I know I am helping her make memories and have fun during her time. I will grief at home in my own time. It is a very hard place to be for us both. I like your idea of a baby shower. She not buying things until near the time. But you have gave me another idea ta