LadyLovenox
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I am 14 weeks, and just had an ultrasound yesterday. As I went into the room, I told the ultrasound tech... Just to let you know, we don't want to know the gender....we're waiting for the surprise on delivery day. She said the doctor will be the one doing it, but that's fine. When the doctor came in, I told her the same thing. Truthfully, I wanted to not find out, bc I really want a girl, and I knew I'd be disappointed w a boy. But I figure once they put my baby in my arms I won't care, so waiting is best. So less than 2 minutes later, while doing my ultrasound, the doctor says "I wouldn't buy any pink" I said excuse me? not believing she had said that. She said "all I'm saying is, I wouldn't buy pink" I said I just told you we didn't want to know!!! She said... I'm not telling you anything. Yellow would be a lovely color. Just not pink. I was obviously irritated, and she said, I'm just kidding... Buy whatever you want. Then she left. The nurse then comes in (who I also told I didn't want to know) , and says, she can always tell gender early. First thing she said when she left the room was "it's a boy". I am sooo upset. Now I feel completely disappointed which I was trying to avoid. And I feel guilty and feel bad for my little boy for feeling like that.
I did call into the doctor and complained. I told her she really upset me. She insisted she was being "fecicious" (spelling?) and that she had no clue what the baby was. She said I can't tell this early on our crappy machines. I even said.... The thing that really set me off was your nurse said you came out of the room saying it's a boy. She replied... "I said it's a boy... Or a girl" which I think is bs. Who would say that? Needless to say, I cried a lot today, and then felt like a terrible mother for being disappointed in my sweet baby. Do you think she was joking like she claims or did she really reveal the gender? Please be honest w your thoughts on this.
I did call into the doctor and complained. I told her she really upset me. She insisted she was being "fecicious" (spelling?) and that she had no clue what the baby was. She said I can't tell this early on our crappy machines. I even said.... The thing that really set me off was your nurse said you came out of the room saying it's a boy. She replied... "I said it's a boy... Or a girl" which I think is bs. Who would say that? Needless to say, I cried a lot today, and then felt like a terrible mother for being disappointed in my sweet baby. Do you think she was joking like she claims or did she really reveal the gender? Please be honest w your thoughts on this.