Get Preggo..without the "tools

Discussion in 'Trying To Conceive' started by Gabrielle, Sep 30, 2008.

  1. Gabrielle

    Gabrielle Mum of 2! Pg with # 3!

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    Just curious if anyone ever got pregnant with just BDING??? My hubby and I decided we arent going to temp, opks, or anything like that, just bd and if it happens it happens. Now this is going to be sooooo hard for me...

    I just hope that we will bd everyday to increase my chances!

    Has anyone ever been sucessful with this ....
     
  2. Jessa

    Jessa Guest

    My DH and I got pregnant with just BD. I don't even know how to temp, nor am I interested in it. I figure that it should be something as natural as possible (unless it's not working naturally, of course). Lots of good old fashioned BD at least every other day and you'd think the sperm would eventually meet the egg! :)
     
  3. Chris77

    Chris77 Mommy to PJ and Gavin

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    I've never been pregnant so I can't answer your question. lol And I use "tools" are more specifically opk's and pre-seed. I don't temp or chart b/c it's just confusing to me. :rofl:
     
  4. lilmomof3

    lilmomof3 pregnant with #4

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    i have actully got pg on my wedding night when i was 18 with my son , i had half strawberry daqury and went home did the deed , lol, and found out i was pg and with my twin girls we tried for months on clomid well the month we said we have had enough if it happens it happens, i got pg with identicle twin girls, best luck hun... its deftly possible
     
  5. superp123

    superp123 Super Auntie to 3 + 1

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    Absolutely possible! How do you think our parents did it? :) Good old fashioned BDing. Good luck to you, I'm keeping my 'tools' though, they make me feel like I'm in control. :rofl:
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  6. Gabrielle

    Gabrielle Mum of 2! Pg with # 3!

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    i know i totally agree about keeping the tools! but hubby doesnt want that....i can still check cm, and ovulation calendar..hehe
     
  7. wishingonastar

    wishingonastar Well-Known Member

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    yeah all i do is check cm at the mo and keep tabs on it that way...i want to try and delay the rest of the tools as long as poss cos i can get a little obsessive about things i really want! lol...do they do help groups for poas????
     
  8. butterflies

    butterflies Well-Known Member

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    Its certainly possibly, theres plenty of people out there that don't ever try and fall pregnant, so it does happen!
    I sometimes think the more we fuss and stress over it the longer it can take as "knowing you've done everything right" so to speak then leads to extra wondering why it hasn't happened etc.

    I don't chart or check cm or cp, i occasionally use pre-seed and its only now that i am seeing the fertility specialist that i have started using opk's. That was on his advice and if i am honest, its driving me even more crazy than before! Since i got my positive, i am wondering even more and now know more than ever how imsane the 2 week wait is!!!!

    Good luck & enjoy!!!! :hugs:
     
  9. stargazer

    stargazer Mummy & pregnant

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    I dont plan to use any 'tools' just yet! Dont want to stress about it, so I figure bd'ing everyother day is bound to work eventually...fx!!

    However I'm sure that if I'm not pg in 6 months my opinions will change and I'll use every type of 'tool' in the metaphorical box!! lol

    :dust: to all xx
     
  10. Ju_bubbs

    Ju_bubbs Proud single Mummy of 5!

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    All my 3 were conceived without 'tool' and while using contraceptive pills (obviously not very well tho lol)

    I'm only using 'tools' (opks, charting) now mainly coz I like to know whats going on with my cycle coz ive been on the pill for years and never really had a proper cycle without them, and because with 3 kids, we dont have the time or energy to bd enough to just leave it to chance :rofl:
     
  11. Gabrielle

    Gabrielle Mum of 2! Pg with # 3!

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    Thanks girls!
     
  12. heavenly

    heavenly 40+ TTC for the 1st time

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    I will be starting Cycle 4 if :witch: arrives at the weekend. Up until now, I have used mymonthly cycle and we have :sex: every day on the days they suggested, but that has been it. I will get some opks for next month just so I know I am not missing on any days that I am fertile, and see what happens.
     
  13. bluetattoo

    bluetattoo Well-Known Member

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    With my first pregnancy I had no idea about anything and don't even think we :sex: that much and I still conceived after two cycles at the age of 30 so yes it most definitely does happen :happydance:

    It seems so completely mad to me now that it happened so easily when I didn't have a clue how small the fertile window is. I wish I could return to that blissfully ignorant state as now my life is ruled by important dates, imaginary twinges and endless symptoms I'm sure I never had before TTC :dohh:

    Wishing you a speedy :bfp::)
     
  14. Ju_bubbs

    Ju_bubbs Proud single Mummy of 5!

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    All my 3 children were miracles conceived with no 'tools'! The first 2 I was on the pill, and the youngest, my OH was away a lot for work and we only bd one time, with a condom!! after 5 or 6 months of trying or what ever it is now... I'm wondering if I should just go back on the pill AND use condoms to get pregnant instead lmao!!!
     
  15. MrsR

    MrsR Well-Known Member

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    both my boys were concieved au naturale! i had no idea whatsoever that you could only get preg at a certain time of the month.... i thought u cud get preg at ANY time...including when your on ur priod.... :rofl:.... thats what they teach u in sex ed isn't it!?! i used to do random testing throughout the months i was trying....i was aware that you shud test the day after your missed period.... but thought it prob wouldn't make much difference HA!

    i concieved my first Jack, in 6 mnths and my second Duncan in 3 mnths! so it is very very very possible! lol
     
  16. Erzulie

    Erzulie Well-Known Member

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    that's what we're hoping to do, but I'll see in a few months!
     
  17. heavenly

    heavenly 40+ TTC for the 1st time

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    I thought that as well when I was younger! :rofl:
     
  18. tootsy1987

    tootsy1987 Abbi and Alfie - My World

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    May i just add... hahaha the question gab asked about just plain old bding... is proof that is is posible as she is now 9wks 3days pregnant after 'not using the tools' hehehehe :) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
     
  19. overcomer79

    overcomer79 LT-TTC success 3.5yrs

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    :dust:It took me over 3yrs with just BDing. But we did it!!

    Best of luck to you :dust:
     
  20. moomoo

    moomoo Mumma to 2 & 1 in heaven!

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    Its also possible considering she had 2 kids before, most people arent that lucky!
     

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