getting advice from preg women

[ourfate]

Soo my SIL is newly pregnant, and only 2 months TTC, i had a birthday BBQ and the whole time she was trying to give ME advice, as if i am doing it wrong!!!!!!!! lmaooo, i hate when people do this, as all you ladies know, that we know absolutely everything there is to know, and know a heck of a lot more than most people!!!!

anyone else have to deal with this??

 

[Armywife84]

Not anymore, I avoid pregnant women.

I get pregnant women telling me how I should feel when it comes to LTTC; how I need to be happy for those more fortunate than I am. Pfffttt, they have enough happiness and joy that surely they're not going to miss mine. Sorry, my feelings come first.

 

[Moorebetter]

hahahaha ^ avoid at all costs!!!!
My MIL is the sweetest on earth, but she had 4 childern and her 1st my DH is the oldest between dh and 2nd child it took a 3 years. But I try and tell her its NOT the same... I havent had my FIRST yet.

another women tried to tell me it was heard for her to get knocked up because she has endo, but found out AFTER she was preggers that she has endo...... the FIRST month she tried. tough??? not.

 

[RKW]

I try and avoid prego's as much as possible.
This weekend I had 1 sister, 1 sister in law and two friends announce their pregnancies. They will all be 6-9 moths pregnant at my wedding.
I'm so happy for all of them but feel so empty too. None of them know we are TTC, and aas we are not married until December I suppose have no reason to suppose.
I now have a world filled with pregnant people. Hmmm

 

[Moorebetter]

RKW

 

[Kimiw]

I know right?! I LOVE how some pregnant women think they know it all just because they happen to be pregnant. I especially love the ones who think just because it took them four months to fall pregnant, they understand how I feel. I'm sorry, but four months and six YEARS is quite different! I know, I probably sound bitter but I can't help it. The one thing I want more than anything is not within my reach. I too have had some say that I should be happy for the women who have been blessed to be pregnant, um, yeah, that isn't harsh is it? I try to be happy for others, and it isn't that I am not, i just have a harder time dealing with it because I want it to be me so bad and it isn't. That is why I limit my use on facebook, cuz it seems like somebody is annoucing a pregnancy daily!

 

[tamithomas]

My story has a little twist..k cause my step brother used to be my ex ( we were together before his dad and my mom got together) and we broke up 3 years ago. When I was with him as well as while he was with his current gf, he always said I don't want a kid except he changed his mind for me. Then my SIL fell BFP, he was pissed at first because he was just about to sign up to go back to school to get his degree finally and now he can't because she stopped taking her pill without him knowing to purposely get BFP. Anyway, 9 months later baby is born so i suck it up and go visit them at the hospital. He has the balls to ask me "so when are you making one of thse?" like really, coming from the guy who used to hate the idea of kids and got tricked into this BFP you're gonna ask that question? I didn't know weather to roll on the floor laughing or run out of the room crying. Plus, my SIL has serious insecurity issues about me still being aroudn due to being his step sister and all so she really had a ball doing small things to rub it in my face that he has a kid now so he's definitely never going back to you like really? I have to best DH in the world, no way would I ever go back to my step brother lol. Anyways, how it's nothing but baby talk with the family because of her BFP. It's soooo annoying! Especially when the family members whom all have had their babies started giving their advice.. do you really think my standing on my head is going to make my DH's motility rate rise? Gosh people are dumb...