Dory85
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I'm not sure if anyone even remembers me but I posted in October time asking advice on whether I should postpone my wedding because I had fallen pregnant again. I'm sure 21st May and my wedding is on 7th April. Well we decided to go ahead with it and I'm feeling much more relaxed. This is the right decision.
Its coming round really quickly. I have bought my 2nd (maternity) wedding dress and I don't feel like I'm settling for second best. Invites have gone out, hen do is booked for a couple of weeks time, cars are booked, photographer is booked. At the start of the new year I felt VERY stressed but now that its all coming together, I'm not as fearful.
I still need to organise 3 hours of wedding music for the background to the meal though which I'm not looking forward to. We're not fans of a lot of conventional wedding music so we're considering using some appropriate songs that we are fans of, such as Massive Attack - Teardrop. Think it might go down like a lead balloon with my mother though. Despite her minimal help in arranging things, she still seems to think that her opinion matters in the final decision making. For example, she told us our photographer was too expensive and we agreed that as he is exactly who we want (doesn't do any posed shots), we would pay the total balance for him. 2 weeks later, she came up with a list of people she wants photos of together
Its coming round really quickly. I have bought my 2nd (maternity) wedding dress and I don't feel like I'm settling for second best. Invites have gone out, hen do is booked for a couple of weeks time, cars are booked, photographer is booked. At the start of the new year I felt VERY stressed but now that its all coming together, I'm not as fearful.
I still need to organise 3 hours of wedding music for the background to the meal though which I'm not looking forward to. We're not fans of a lot of conventional wedding music so we're considering using some appropriate songs that we are fans of, such as Massive Attack - Teardrop. Think it might go down like a lead balloon with my mother though. Despite her minimal help in arranging things, she still seems to think that her opinion matters in the final decision making. For example, she told us our photographer was too expensive and we agreed that as he is exactly who we want (doesn't do any posed shots), we would pay the total balance for him. 2 weeks later, she came up with a list of people she wants photos of together