Getting Mayas Prezzies Finally!!!

[Younglutonmum]

Well since i've had my little Maya sooo many people have come up & asked me if sperm doner has passed on the present they got for Maya to me?

Well obviously he hasn't as he has never even seen her!

I was out Saturday night (bad mummy ) & bumped into one of his best mates & I was expecting grief from him to be honest but instead he came over hugged me & asked if I liked the outfit he got her? Turns out he got her a little footie kit with Maya printed on the back. I told him the truth that i'd never recieved it & he was fuming & so was I. People have gone out of there way to get Maya a little something & instead of passing these gifts on he's hung on to them!!

So I texted him & asked about the gifts. No reply. So I texted again, still no reply. So Sunday night I emailed his sister asking her to have a word with him about these gifts because at the end of the day no matter what his issues are with me these gifts are meant for Maya. She got back to me yesterday & said he's got a heap of stuff from various people that she'll post to me this week. Finally!! Woop!!

Also I know his mum has got Maya a few bits & I reckon they'll come in this parcel. I'm not being childish but I don't want anything from her at all. Should I send them bits back or would that be mean??

 

[LucyS]

I wouldnt bother, pass them on if you dont want them.

Can see why you are annoyed about the other gifts though but at least you will be getting them now Let us know what arrives.

 

[nessajane]

I personally wouldnt send them back as it would prob cause a whole lot of grief and bother you could prob do without hun!
I would just pass them on or give them to the charity shop if you really dont want them!!

 

[nikky0907]

Finally!

I can't belive he was keeping all this stuff at home and not even passing you a note or something that he has these gifts!
Childish,selfish and just freaking stupid!

You know,I wouldn't send his mom the gifts back,she will probably get massivly offended,call you rude and create all sorts of issues.
If you really don't want them,you can always give them to charity or to a friend maybe?

 

[Younglutonmum]

Well the parcel arrived today. Wasn't massively happy as everything was thrown in & there was no note so I don't know who bought what!! Need to find out so I can send thank you cards!!

Ive decided that I will keep the things I think are from his mum as at the end of the day they are for Maya & they might as well contribute!

There was a shed load of clothes in the package, blankets, booties & a £100 mothercare voucher

Bit freaked by the hand knitted cardigan though. A charm was attached to it with Jesus on it saying I will pray for you!!! Wtf??

 

[alice&bump]

glad you got it all finally!! the cardigan sounds like somethin my aunty would send!!!!

 

[nessajane]

glad you finally got them hun
very naughty of him really not letting you know who bought maya what!!