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Jade--x
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So me and my ex have a pretty bad past and I've heard a lot of things that have been said since by him and his girlfriend that really aren't true ie. I have a deep hate and jealousy for them etc.
Well long story short..I don't..the reason I've never wanted any contact from either of them is a. The things I've been told about them which a lot of them seem to have been proved true..and b. The awful things my ex put me through both in the relationship and during and after my pregnancy when the relationship was over.
I decided quite a while back I was letting go of everything that was reasons to hate and dislike people..And that included the crap I've had with them.
Don't get me wrong I don't want to be any kind of best friends with these people while I'm being the bigger person and letting go of the past for my own benefit..You can't just erase things like that totally..
Just wondered if anyone had any advice on how I can let them know that that's how it is and how I'm willing to be civil for my son..But I really don't want to make any kind of contact with them first.
Well long story short..I don't..the reason I've never wanted any contact from either of them is a. The things I've been told about them which a lot of them seem to have been proved true..and b. The awful things my ex put me through both in the relationship and during and after my pregnancy when the relationship was over.
I decided quite a while back I was letting go of everything that was reasons to hate and dislike people..And that included the crap I've had with them.
Don't get me wrong I don't want to be any kind of best friends with these people while I'm being the bigger person and letting go of the past for my own benefit..You can't just erase things like that totally..
Just wondered if anyone had any advice on how I can let them know that that's how it is and how I'm willing to be civil for my son..But I really don't want to make any kind of contact with them first.