they way certain people in our familys are going im going to end up snaping and telling everyone they can not see my son! as if i dont have enough proplems with the MIL trying to force a claim on my son thinking she can do what she wants when she wants with him. now my family are starting up to my aunt a few weeks ago gave me a huge lecture in a emial telling me a desision i made in my birth plan was wrong and why it was wrong and told me i had to do it a certain other way. now my nan has piped up and got the ump with me because i said i wasnt going to stay at hers over night on the way back to essex.she kept going on and on about it and i had to keep saying no and eventually she threw a strop and tryed telling me no one else will beable to see him if i only go there for a few hours and she wont get a proper cuddle.what is this women on?how wont you get a cuddle and why wont other family members beable to go over yours on the same afternoon?esp as they only live 15mins from her. she then told me she was coming to see me when id had the baby.i told her we wasnt having visitors and was going to visit people instead and she got the ump about that to and said she was just going to turn up!which she will do as she did it all the time with my mum when we was little!what makes her think she can do what she wants.does she think the same rules dont apply to her as they do everyone else? what is it with people that make them think as soon as you have a baby they can do what they want when they want and not give a toss what Dal and Me have decided we wanted to do.does something about a new born make them switch off and get tunnel vision as apparently their the most important people in the babys life and they can turn up and do what they want with him when they decide! so angry right now were the parents not them!its our desision about when people visit not theirs!its up to us what we do with our son not theirs!and why they seem to think other wize and throw a tantrum about it i dont no! as far as im consired at the mo they can all go and shove it where the sun doesnt shine!