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Kerry!
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The day after I praise him for surprising me by starting on clearing out the nursery he goes and behaves like a complete moron 
He makes me so mad!!!
Ill pre-warn you this im sure is going to be a long rant!!!
Ok David has never been a brill time keeper and honestly doesnt really see his mates much.... but when he does... he just doesnt BEHAVE!!! (only way i can explain it)!!
I couldnt ask for better when it comes to cleaning and tidying and I really cant wait until he becomes a daddy for the first time as I think he will be brill...
BUT.................
He went to footie training today so dropped me off at work at 8 am (we share a car) and then when picking me up at 2pm he says "baby Im going to the pub... only for 2 hours though"!!!! Cant believe I fell for it again!!! he just seems to have this way by saying "i love you" etc and "def be home by 4.30pm" routine!!!
Well its now 7.45pm.... and hes not home!!!
We communicate.... and I get messages... of Im sorry Im no good with time and I never get to spend time with my mates!!! Does he not understand its not the spending time with his mates part its the taking the piss part!!!
Also does he not understand that when I get upset our baby gets upset?!? I get myself so worked up, especially when he starts ignoring my calls!!!
He totally justifies it by saying you see your mates more etc etc!!!
Then he says when baby is born I can go out whenever..... well like Im going to want to for a while anyway!!! Breastfeeding and figure will stop that!!!
God men get it so easy..... boozing at the pub whilst I only have sky and baby & bump (no offence) for company!!! I cant go pub and get pissed!!! GOD DO I WANT TO!!!!
Last sunday was the same.... well alot worse... but gave him the benefit of the doubt cos he just found out an old friend died!!!! At 5pm... tells me he'll be home at 7pm!! I was told "wont be long" at 8pm... !! 10.40pm they were on their last pint....!!! 11.25pm still on last pint!! eventually home at 2pm!!! Last week I was getting the sweetest messages from him but it makes me feel like he just sends them to butter me up!!!
Plus I wanted him to bring home some heinz treacle sponge at 5pm... (saw an advert on tv, already have the custard) bet I dont get it!!!
I really think men should carry the baby for a week or so!! Show them what its really like!!
He makes me so mad!!!
Ill pre-warn you this im sure is going to be a long rant!!!
Ok David has never been a brill time keeper and honestly doesnt really see his mates much.... but when he does... he just doesnt BEHAVE!!! (only way i can explain it)!!
I couldnt ask for better when it comes to cleaning and tidying and I really cant wait until he becomes a daddy for the first time as I think he will be brill...
BUT.................
He went to footie training today so dropped me off at work at 8 am (we share a car) and then when picking me up at 2pm he says "baby Im going to the pub... only for 2 hours though"!!!! Cant believe I fell for it again!!!
he just seems to have this way by saying "i love you" etc and "def be home by 4.30pm" routine!!!Well its now 7.45pm.... and hes not home!!!
We communicate.... and I get messages... of Im sorry Im no good with time and I never get to spend time with my mates!!! Does he not understand its not the spending time with his mates part its the taking the piss part!!!
Also does he not understand that when I get upset our baby gets upset?!? I get myself so worked up, especially when he starts ignoring my calls!!!
He totally justifies it by saying you see your mates more etc etc!!!
Then he says when baby is born I can go out whenever..... well like Im going to want to for a while anyway!!! Breastfeeding and figure will stop that!!!
God men get it so easy..... boozing at the pub whilst I only have sky and baby & bump (no offence) for company!!! I cant go pub and get pissed!!!
GOD DO I WANT TO!!!!Last sunday was the same.... well alot worse... but gave him the benefit of the doubt cos he just found out an old friend died!!!! At 5pm... tells me he'll be home at 7pm!! I was told "wont be long" at 8pm... !! 10.40pm they were on their last pint....!!! 11.25pm still on last pint!! eventually home at 2pm!!!
Last week I was getting the sweetest messages from him but it makes me feel like he just sends them to butter me up!!!Plus I wanted him to bring home some heinz treacle sponge at 5pm... (saw an advert on tv, already have the custard) bet I dont get it!!!
I really think men should carry the baby for a week or so!! Show them what its really like!!
thanks girls for reading my rant!!! 
Totally true,
Good Lord I would have killed the buggar!
