has anyone ever forgiven a cheat?

[reiller]

My Oh has never cheated (that I know of) but im sure if i found out I would be seriously upset and have to consider a lot of facotrs who she was, how long etc... Becuase of the fact we are having a babay you ahev to consider that as well..
I think if you genuniely believe him and he had expressed serious regret,,, then I would prob take him back....

 

[kelsey111]

my OH forgave me for cheating

 

[newmommy23]

I should express that if he cheated on me now, while I was pregnant, or at any point once Molly is born, he's gone and it's done. We had bad issues when he cheated because we had just lost a baby and it was hard for us, we split up. technically he didn't "cheat" since we weren't together..but we both considered it cheating. with our situation now, i would NOT forgive

 

[girlygirl:)]

One of my exes was a serial cheater, i took him back, and everytime he used to make out as if he wud never do it again, i loved him so much, it broke my heart, i lost all my self confidence, and he went on to emotianally abuse me because he knew he could, i took him back after he cheated every time, even though people told me i was stupid.

in the end he did change, dramatically, he stoped cheating on me, and just stayed in with me, but by the end, i started going to stay at my mothers more and more, and in the end, i realised i didn't need him and i would be better off with out him, and I was.

He is now 24 and going out with a girl he cheated on me with, she was 15 when they started going out, bit sick.

Whilst I am settled down with my new partner that I know wouldnt ever do anything to hurt me at all, I trust him totally, even though I do have doubts, i dont think they ever go if you've had someone cheat on you.

No we are hoping for a little one to start our family, I know my Oh will be a good Dad, and I'm so glad I got out of that relationship in the end!

 

[xprincessx]

my OH didn't exactly "cheat" on me but i did find a message to an ex of his on his facebook last september telling her she was the kindest and most special person he had ever met blah blah blah and it took me ages to forgive him...

he decided to cut her out of his life and that's good enough for me and nothing has happened since.

(i wasn't checking up on him when i found out btw i asked him if i could use it to send someone a message because mine was playing up and didn't give him a chance to delete it)

xxx

 

[Srrme]

I wouldn't and I have made it very clear to my OH if he ever does cheat he better tell me, because I would find out right away. And I have made it very clear that would be the end of our relationship, So I told him to break up with me before he does it because I would rather he has the respect to break up with me than cheat on me.

Ive been cheated on to much and I cant do a relationship without trust. I did it on my own with my son for a long time and would do it on my own with both of my kids, before ever taking a cheater back no matter how much I love him, and Even if hes the father of my child.

Couldn't have said it better myself. I told my OH the same thing, and have been previously cheated on too.

Good for you.