Yay!!!
Get ready for questions if that's okay!
Were you with LOs sperms donor at the time so you were support for him? Does this mean you were that poor sod in the audience who jezza drags into it or were you actually on stage? Was the audience nice or quite starey? What's it like backstage? Do you get treated nicely afterwards or are you just dumped after the show has filmed? Do you think jezza wound sperm donor and his ex gf up to get big reactions? Or did they act like they normally would?
Would you recommend the experience?
Hope that's not too nosy lol! I'm excited to meet someone who's been on it!
I was with him at the time, it was in 2009 & we'd not even been together a yr. His ex text him within weeks of us getting together to say she was preg. It wasn't pleasant haha.
I was actually on stage with him, had to walk out & everything. Very very scary.
The audience were okay, pretty starey... no booing I don't think (I don't really remember, it was so frightening, very "deer in the headlights"
The dressing rooms are like just a room with some chairs & a mirror. We got to meet Jezza before hand as well...he's very short haha.
The actual backstage area you see on the show is just like sofas with a camera in your face. Nothing special.
After the show, we were taken back to the dressing room & then my ex was taken off for "aftercare" 15 mins later he was back saying they'd just sat him in a room with his ex & told them to agree to some contact. Utterly useless. Also... we were taken from yorkshire via taxi to get there & send home on the train haha. But they payed for everything & a hotel & a meal.
Jezza doesn't do any winding up, a member of "the team" sits with you before hand while your backstage & they wind up the "main people" i.e my ex & his ex something chronic! In our case, she went on first & all the time she was talking, this guy was going to my ex "see what she's saying about you, go out there & set her straight, listen to all them lies she's spouting, when you get on stage sort her out & tell your side. She's being such a bitch about you" etc etc. And when I was on my own, after my ex had gone on stage he was there going "go out there & support him, speak up & put her right. Don't let them blame you for everything" etc.
I do think they sorta spin it a certain way, by who speaks first etc. Jezza deffo puts words in peoples mouths. It was reeeeeeally odd, cos that was the first time I'd actually met his ex lol. We're quite good friends now, since we both hate my ex lmao.
I wouldn't recomend it AT ALL! It doesn't solve anything & it really does feel like they set people up to fail.
No ofc I don't mind, I'm happy to answer questions, I wondered all this before I went on lol