I had attacks for years before going in to be seen, I thought it was what everyone called indigestion :/ I ended up meeting my birthmother who told me in ran in the family and her mom and her had both had theirs out and I started to research it. It started when I was still a teenager and not heavy, and it got worse after my first son was born. When I was younger I used to go for a walk and it would help the pain but later on it was so incredibly painful, my mom tried to call 911 because she thought I was having a heart attack and I insisted it was just indegestion! While on all fours on the bed, crying and sweating. I always wanted to throw up but it wouldn't really help when I did. Finally I started having the attacks without eating, one night I was shopping with my son and I felt it start, I headed to the car and made it just in time to set him in his seat and throw up in the parking lot. I went in asap and they found stones and gave me a medicine to break them up and told me to schedule an outpatient surgery. So I started taking it and the next night had the same pain but something felt very different and I went back in...a stone had lodged itself in my pancreas and I was turning yellow, they said I could have died if I didn't go in.. I was admitted and they took care of me and didn't let me eat for a week while the pancreatitis got better, and then they did an endoscopy and finally the surgery to get it out. The best thing I ever did was get rid of that awful organ lol.
Bottom line, don't let them make you feel bad or dumb, I have been in for other things since and when I know something is wrong and they wont listen I have a bad habit of crying and it always freaks the doctors out lol, they usually do more to try and figure out what is wrong. When they say "there's no more tests we can do" they are usually full of crap. Make them figure it out before it may get worse, my surgery was way worse to recover from with the added pain from the pancreatitis.
If you keep getting this pain, keep bugging them too, don't give up.
There is something they call the 5 Fs of gallbladder..
Fair: more prevalent in Caucasian population
Fat: BMI >30
Female
Fertile: one or more children
Forty: age ≥40
But if you have an immediate family member that had them then that replaces the being over forty, plus it is all a guideline for likelihood not like if you dont fit the part then you cant get them. My grandpa had his removed too and he is skinny and definitely not a female!
Good luck!