Have I done something wrong?

[Tanara]

You have dont nothing wrong even if you two decided to be more than friends. Shes obviously a phyco like my OHs ex. There is nothing you can do she will never be alright with you two being anything. Just ignore her honestly. And if shes honestly sending you messages like that, tell her to act more like a mother. Cusing out people and talking like that is not motherly IMO

I honestly don't know how I feel about him right now, it sounds silly but what makes him "attractive" to me is how good of a father he is... My ex-OH (not FOB) has a child too and the drama with his child's mother is one of the main reasons that we're not together so I really don't want to go through all that again.
If your OH's ex is anything like her than she is definitely a little psycho lol She really hasn't matured at all since having her daughter and she's one of the teen moms who give the rest of us a bad reputation

Dont worrie I understand i Dated a guy a long time ago (between FOB and OH) He has a daughter thats 7months older than my son, and it was great til the mom caught wind an i told him i was good. (i had enough ex drama with my sons dad).

My OH's ex faked a pregnancy when he left her, then when she found out we were expecting sent me messages saying he was cheating on me with her. (which was funny cause the nights she says they were together i was with him lol)

And it gets better, My Oh and Tayes Father get along soooo well now, its crazy. Tayes dad dropped him off yesterday (it was his weekend) and they sat down and had a beer and visited. It took us a long time to get here, but he eventually realized Me and my son were happy, and That my OH is a really great guy and dropped it.

 

[stuffymuffy]

You have dont nothing wrong even if you two decided to be more than friends. Shes obviously a phyco like my OHs ex. There is nothing you can do she will never be alright with you two being anything. Just ignore her honestly. And if shes honestly sending you messages like that, tell her to act more like a mother. Cusing out people and talking like that is not motherly IMO

I honestly don't know how I feel about him right now, it sounds silly but what makes him "attractive" to me is how good of a father he is... My ex-OH (not FOB) has a child too and the drama with his child's mother is one of the main reasons that we're not together so I really don't want to go through all that again.
If your OH's ex is anything like her than she is definitely a little psycho lol She really hasn't matured at all since having her daughter and she's one of the teen moms who give the rest of us a bad reputation

Dont worrie I understand i Dated a guy a long time ago (between FOB and OH) He has a daughter thats 7months older than my son, and it was great til the mom caught wind an i told him i was good. (i had enough ex drama with my sons dad).

My OH's ex faked a pregnancy when he left her, then when she found out we were expecting sent me messages saying he was cheating on me with her. (which was funny cause the nights she says they were together i was with him lol)

And it gets better, My Oh and Tayes Father get along soooo well now, its crazy. Tayes dad dropped him off yesterday (it was his weekend) and they sat down and had a beer and visited. It took us a long time to get here, but he eventually realized Me and my son were happy, and That my OH is a really great guy and dropped it.

Oh goodness, why is that when girls have a child with someone they think that they now own them Don't get me wrong, I miss FOB and it bothers me he's gotten other girls but I wouldn't dream or harassing them or even talking to them! It's not their fault what he's done and life is full of disappointments and I've just got to go on, ya know? I'm sorry to hear about your ex but it sounds like you and your OH are very happy now Wow is ex sounds so lovely! Aw that's so awesome that Taye's dad and your OH are on good terms, it must make things so much easier!!

 

[Tanara]

It definatly does, and i know what you mean i didnt want to be with Tayes dad but it bugged me that he was dating like a month after i left. I got over it pretty fast though. I think with us its more the worry of that girl possibly being around our child than anything.

 

[cotawalls]

You've done totally nothing wrong You didn't even need to give her an explanation of anything.

i agree, i would have told her it was NONE of her business.. youre nicer than me...

 

[pinkribbon]

i think she's probs just a litte hurt at the way he's been treating her and got the wrong end of the stick. she might just be looking for someone to blame for his behaviour. i wouldn't worry about it, you sent her a pleasant enough text.