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Have you ever fantasized about a male friend, or more importantly - acted on it?

daneuse27

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I have two close male friends from two different friendship circles. One I'm much closer to than the other (I could tell him anything, even TMI stuff, he knows everything about me, etc.) The other one isn't as close emotionally, but we get together every so often to eat dinner, see a movie, etc.

They both have girlfriends. I don't have feelings for either, and honestly wouldn't be interested in dating either of them (we're just friends for a reason.) But I sometimes fantasize about what it would be like to sleep with either of them. I guess how close we are and how much we've shared makes me think it would be really intense/tender.. I don't know. :blush: It sounds silly but I find myself thinking about it sometimes.

I'm not going to act on this curiosity, not only because they are in relationships, but also because 15 minutes of fun wouldn't be worth changing the dynamics of friendships that could last a lifetime.

Has anyone else ever had sexual curiosity towards a male friend they didn't have feelings for? Did you act on it? And if so, did your friendship change? Any thoughts welcome.
 
Didn't have feelings for.. No. Did have feelings for, yes. Although I did have a.. fumble.. with a friend I had no feelings for. We didn't have full blown sex.

Honestly, it made things a bit awkward for a week, then we were able to laugh it off. We were very close though, and he was very good looking! x
 
i haven't really thought about this before actually! i have lots of male friends, most of them i haven't fantasised about to be honest - except in a kind of 'eww' way! even the ones who are actually attractive, i just don't even go there in my head.

BUT. i have fantasised about some male friends i don't have feelings for in the past, and acted on it a couple of times! but nothing came from any of them and the sex wasn't even that good :haha:

and recently i started having sexy dreams about one of my close friends, and really did fantasise about having sex with him :argh: it was actually a really confusing few weeks, i couldn't look him in the eye, i was having some really sexy times with him in my head :haha: but i definitely didn't do anything about it!

so basically...i both have and haven't had sexual feelings for male friends that i don't have feelings for, and some of the times that i have i have acted on it. i'm a bit of a mixed bag :laugh2:
 

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