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I have two close male friends from two different friendship circles. One I'm much closer to than the other (I could tell him anything, even TMI stuff, he knows everything about me, etc.) The other one isn't as close emotionally, but we get together every so often to eat dinner, see a movie, etc.
They both have girlfriends. I don't have feelings for either, and honestly wouldn't be interested in dating either of them (we're just friends for a reason.) But I sometimes fantasize about what it would be like to sleep with either of them. I guess how close we are and how much we've shared makes me think it would be really intense/tender.. I don't know. It sounds silly but I find myself thinking about it sometimes.
I'm not going to act on this curiosity, not only because they are in relationships, but also because 15 minutes of fun wouldn't be worth changing the dynamics of friendships that could last a lifetime.
Has anyone else ever had sexual curiosity towards a male friend they didn't have feelings for? Did you act on it? And if so, did your friendship change? Any thoughts welcome.
They both have girlfriends. I don't have feelings for either, and honestly wouldn't be interested in dating either of them (we're just friends for a reason.) But I sometimes fantasize about what it would be like to sleep with either of them. I guess how close we are and how much we've shared makes me think it would be really intense/tender.. I don't know. It sounds silly but I find myself thinking about it sometimes.
I'm not going to act on this curiosity, not only because they are in relationships, but also because 15 minutes of fun wouldn't be worth changing the dynamics of friendships that could last a lifetime.
Has anyone else ever had sexual curiosity towards a male friend they didn't have feelings for? Did you act on it? And if so, did your friendship change? Any thoughts welcome.