MrsClark24
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All my life I have wanted 3 boys, since I was old enough to know that women have babies. I've never even considered that I was able to have a girl, so when I fell pregnant I naturally thought it was a boy. Alas, we are having a girl. Massive shock!
My husband has 2 little girls from a previous relationship, and the mother simply does not allow him to see them. No reason why (she's not given us a reason) but its hard for him because when they split up his daughters were taken from him and he hasn't seen them since. It's awful, sometimes he says he's glad they left, sometimes he's angry but mostly when he thinks about them he cries. It hurts me so much to see him so upset and there's nothing I can do.
I wanted a little boy for us because, in my mind, it wouldn't remind him of his daughters as much. I don't want my daughter to be compared to her half sisters, or for her to do something that reminds my hubby of his daughters.
I'm struggling to comes to terms with having a girl, not in disappointment way, but in a worried way. I don't want my baby girl to be compared to anyone in anyway, and I'm afraid she will be.
I also HATE e fact that all girl clothes are princess pink!! Need to find some not so girly clothes!
My husband has 2 little girls from a previous relationship, and the mother simply does not allow him to see them. No reason why (she's not given us a reason) but its hard for him because when they split up his daughters were taken from him and he hasn't seen them since. It's awful, sometimes he says he's glad they left, sometimes he's angry but mostly when he thinks about them he cries. It hurts me so much to see him so upset and there's nothing I can do.
I wanted a little boy for us because, in my mind, it wouldn't remind him of his daughters as much. I don't want my daughter to be compared to her half sisters, or for her to do something that reminds my hubby of his daughters.
I'm struggling to comes to terms with having a girl, not in disappointment way, but in a worried way. I don't want my baby girl to be compared to anyone in anyway, and I'm afraid she will be.
I also HATE e fact that all girl clothes are princess pink!! Need to find some not so girly clothes!