Having BD whilst Pregnant

[Jules]

Since finding out i am pregnant, I have gone a little of sex, (probably worried about hurting baby!) it is ok to have at this early stage right?!?

Also, do all blokes go off it also when they find out, my OH says it puts him off a little, knowing theres a baby inside me, I am hoping he aint going to think like that the whole nine months!!! LOL

 

[elles28]

I done it with my other two pregnancies & we both enjoyed it but this time coz it took us so long getting BFP we are both glad of the break.......LOL I am only 28 I sound ancient saying that but it wont harm the baby as far as I know..hope this helps a bit

Elle x

 

[tinytoes]

myself and my DB are the same - we're both put off by the baby being in there. I guess for a while at least I am not a sexual object but a baby home! suits me, i'm happy cuddling for a while.

 

[Jules]

I just hope i dont have to wait nine months to become a sexual object again lol!

 

[nikkybaby]

My OH and I have continued without worry. It even seems to be better! I was a little worried that he would think that he could hurt it...but thank god...he doesn't. I don't think I could go nine months without it!

 

[Serene123]

I've gone off completely and it's made my OH seem like a sex-obsessed idiot! It makes me mad lol

 

[elles28]

LOL most men are the same I think.......now in saying that I have always felt sexy when I have a bump but I had 2 good pregnancies will have to wait & see what thais one brings!!

 

[Serene123]

My sex drive just doesn't exist unless I'm asleep dreaming about a fit celeb on a beach!

 

[Jules]

I know he wants to just the thought of me having baby inside puts him off, as he's always trying it on but then when he stops to think about it .... haha quite amusing

 

[Serene123]

LOL my OH was like that at first but now hes so desperate I don't think he could care less LMAO

 

[Jules]

Haha suppose they do suffer like us, sort of, after all !!

 

[Serene123]

Yeah, I think they suffer more in some ways lol

 

[goldlion]

My first trimester, I wanted nothing to do with sex at all... DH had his booming libido as always. I almost felt like I was depriving him.

However, it is completely safe to have sex throughout your entire pregnancy... In our case, being women, it's actually more pleasurable as we feel it more. Our senses are almost heightened 'down there'. Don't be afraid to BD with OH, and I'm sure even though he may be put off a bit that he'll be back to himself in no time... men can't go without it!

 

[Margerle]

We had been avoiding pregnancy for various reasons, and when I let him know I was fertile, he wished to pursue BD anyway VOILA!

Having a baby right now scared him quite a bit, so his hesitation with sex came from that fact, not because he was scared of hurting the baby.

I have the same drive as always and his libido seemed to fall quite a bit which frustrated me. But after a few weeks, he's seemed to be back to normal.



I'm anxious to see how we adapt to my changing body as I continue to grow and this baby continues to develop

 

[suzan]

We aren't on it now. Not for the first trimester. It's not about harming or not bec I know it's safe. But I am just scared as I already had a miscarriage before so we are safe in all sense

 

[Vickie]

I've been way to tired for sex, poor DH.

 

[Wobbles]

It does put some men off.

My OH was getting frisky one night then realised I had my 'under construction' baby t.shirt on LMAO

Sex will not hurt baby - the only time its not advised (mainly in 1st tri) is if you have a history of miscarriages.

 

[Wobbles]

I've been way to tired for sex, poor DH.

LOL I found not being able to have sex in first tri put me off til the third tri

Now I want it for selfish reasons! Far as Im concerned he put it there he can now help get it out lol (My poor bubba ha)

 

[Vickie]

LOL I found not being able to have sex in first tri put me off til the third tri

Now I want it for selfish reasons! Far as Im concerned he put it there he can now help get it out lol (My poor bubba ha)

 

[BurtonBaby]

Neither of us wanted it as much during the first tri. I think between morning sickness, fatigue, and getting used to everything going on, we just weren't as interested as before. Once we got passed that, we both wanted it quite a bit. And sorry if this is way TMI, but have any of you girls noticed that if you do, it actually hurts quite a bit. Like everything has gotten smaller down there. I hope thats normal...