I'm so worried and upset.
My husband and I just got married in august and he moved from his town 4 hours away to live in my city (I definately didn't want to stay here it's just cheaper). I'm 38 weeks and expecting the child anytime now.
My MIL has a really brash and imposing energy which doesn't jive well with my 'go with the flow' energy. The first thing that got me worried was that when I'll give birth she'll be flying down and staying with us for a week to help. I already have my own parents who live ten minutes away to help. Since I know she's from out of town, I made peace with it cuz it's only a week. But what's bothering me is that he's hinting that his mom can stay with us weeks at a time to help.
Umm no! First off I already have my own mom to help me. He says that it's better for me cuz his mom is retired and my mom is working. I'm upset because his parents are going through marital problems and has been talking about seperating from his dad so sometimes I feel like she's really imposing on our lives to pass the time.
I feel bad because I know his family lives 4 hours away but I don't want his mom to feel free to come all the time and stay with us when I wanna spend as much time with the baby during my maternity leave (I get the whole year) with her bossing me around my own house.
Please help!! This is causing me to resent my husband cuz I feel like he's playing the mamas boy and acts like his own mom has all the answers.
My husband and I just got married in august and he moved from his town 4 hours away to live in my city (I definately didn't want to stay here it's just cheaper). I'm 38 weeks and expecting the child anytime now.
My MIL has a really brash and imposing energy which doesn't jive well with my 'go with the flow' energy. The first thing that got me worried was that when I'll give birth she'll be flying down and staying with us for a week to help. I already have my own parents who live ten minutes away to help. Since I know she's from out of town, I made peace with it cuz it's only a week. But what's bothering me is that he's hinting that his mom can stay with us weeks at a time to help.
Umm no! First off I already have my own mom to help me. He says that it's better for me cuz his mom is retired and my mom is working. I'm upset because his parents are going through marital problems and has been talking about seperating from his dad so sometimes I feel like she's really imposing on our lives to pass the time.
I feel bad because I know his family lives 4 hours away but I don't want his mom to feel free to come all the time and stay with us when I wanna spend as much time with the baby during my maternity leave (I get the whole year) with her bossing me around my own house.
Please help!! This is causing me to resent my husband cuz I feel like he's playing the mamas boy and acts like his own mom has all the answers.