truly_blessed
Loving being a new mummy
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so i turned 40 in dec and had mmc at the end of nov so still trying for #1. my cycles seem to be all over the place and i think i just finished 1 that lasted 17 days.
my heart says just go for it now, time isn't waiting for you.
my head says if you wait until af after 29 march then you get 4k more as i will qualify for full maternity benefits then. it will probably take way longer than first attempt anyway and time has been ticking for a good 5 years now. what to do, what to do. kind of ntnp at the minute cos i just cant force myself to do anything consciously that would prevent. the only solution i have so far is hibernation but i think i might be missed.
my heart says just go for it now, time isn't waiting for you.
my head says if you wait until af after 29 march then you get 4k more as i will qualify for full maternity benefits then. it will probably take way longer than first attempt anyway and time has been ticking for a good 5 years now. what to do, what to do. kind of ntnp at the minute cos i just cant force myself to do anything consciously that would prevent. the only solution i have so far is hibernation but i think i might be missed.