Heading for IUI next month- mixed feelings

[J_in_Dubai]

Well, it looks like I'm out this cycle- 14DPO and a BFN. I'm on duphoston so my Doc said that I need to stop taking it now and let AF arrive. So that means we'll be having an IUI next month.

I feel so sad about it. I'm trying to feel positive and convince myself that it's going to work, but I can't get over the thought that it really has come to this, and it sucks! I never imagined concieving my first child like this...I know it's silly, but I feel like a bit of a failure. Has anyone else felt like this?

 

[RayeAnne]

Oh you are not alone!
I felt the same way. It's a bit hard to get over, but hang in there! If anything, feel excited that youre moving onto the next step in helping get that baby!

Im 28, DH is 28, we have a 7 year old (concieved while I was on the pill!) and we just had our 5th IUI fail. Trust me, I never DREAMED of being here.

Just take a deep breath, focus on the good of whats yet to come. Something so spectacular as a new baby is definitally worth the trouble, and the wait!
Our day will come!!!

Don't stress yourself out, your body needs to be in tip top shape!