Heart beat gone.

[HippieMama]

I'm an emotional wreck. I am 10 weeks pregnant. I went in for a typical check up yesterday and randomly asked my doctor for an u/s. She did one on the little machine and told me she didn't see a heart beat. But, not to worry because those machines weren't very good so just to be safe she sent me over to the u/s tech and she said there was no heart beat, no blood flow, and the baby wasn't moving. They suspect my baby died 3 days ago. I am a mess. I can't think straight, everything was going perfect with my pregnancy. Just last week we had an ultrasound and I saw my healthy little baby dancing around the screen with a strong heart beat. I am having a second opinion tomorrow before I do my D&C. I know that there is no chance of my baby being alive. I wish there was. We had name for the little one, we called it Jude. I'm really not coping well. Especially since I still feel pregnant, I'm not bleeding. It's as if it's not real. I just wish I could find some hope, I don't know why I want the hope, that will probably just hurt worse. Has this happened to anyone? What was the outcome? I feel so alone.

 

[indigo_fairy]

I'm so so sorry I can't even imagine how you're feeling. Absolutely beautiful name, Jude I wish you the very best I can at this sad time.

 

[mafiamom]

i am so very very sorry. this exact thing happened to me with my last pregnancy. i was 9 weeks along and no heart beat

my heart goes out to you. i know exactly what you are going thru hunny

 

[luvnmybumpx4]

I am so sorry hun Jude is such a lovely name!!! My thoughts are with you.

 

[Tink1o5]

So sorry hun. =( Wish there was something i could do to help. Wishing you and your family the best.

 

[Weeplin]

I'm so sorry hon

 

[nkbapbt]

I am so sorry. I have had this happen three times now, and it was devastating. One minute everything was ok, and then baby was gone. Getting a second opinion is a good idea, just to give your mind some ease.

 

[nfo1976]

i'm so very sorry- i have had 2 missed miscarriages and it was devastating.Take care of yourself

 

[Lea8198]

I'm so sorry to hear this. I had a missed miscarriage too after seeing a heartbeat and it is heart breaking. I am so so sorry. Big hugs xxxxx

 

[Loui1001]

I'm so so sorry huni. I've been there myself and it's heartbreaking.

Thinking of you xx

 

[v2007]

I am so sorry.



V xxx

 

[bizzy27]

I am sorry to hear that you are going through this.

I went through the same thing. Except it was my first U/S! I was supposedly 8 1/2 weeks, but my baby only measured 7 1/2

I this is going to sound corny and almost pointless at this time in your life, but the best thing you can do is PRAY and talk it out with your friends and family.

They are all going to be there for you. For as long as you need. Its been almost a year in April, and I still talk to my mom sometimes.

My heart goes out to you and if you need someone to talk to ...send me a private message anytime.

 

[kanga]

I'm so sorry I have lost two babies this way and it is devestating but the days do start to get easier from here on in xxxxxxxxx