Heartbroken, I am not so sure my little boy is really a boy

[heatherlee06]

Please, I need a second opinion. OK, long a story very short. At 13 and 14 1\2 weeks. I was told the baby looks like a girl, but to soon to tell. So, in my 16 week I went for a private scan. Right away she said the baby was a boy. I thought the boy parts 1 were way to big and number 2 I seen no scrotum at all. But, shes the tech so I never second guessed her. Well I went for my anatomy scan, all went well, I didnt tell her I knew the sex of the baby so she would just double check. I told her to wait until the end to tell me. During the ultrasound she did check the cord, which was totally wrapped all around the baby's lower body. So,it shock me when she didnt check again while seeing my baby's gender. This is part what has me very confused, she looked very good between the baby's legs and seen nothing at all, I swore I seen lines. I thought omg the baby is a girl. Since she seen nothing between his legs she went and looked from the top. Right then and there I seen this huge thing sticking out, I am thinking no way. She took a picture with in a sec of seeing this huge part and called it a boy. She never checked other angles or checked the cord, and once again no sight of a scrotum. I went home and started to watch the dvd. I wanted to know where the scrotum was hiding, the more I watched the more I seen this boy part is a umbilical cord and the baby has no scrotum because he may really be a she. Here are only a few pictures out of many. Please, do you think this could still be a boy at all? I already spent hundreds of dollars in boy things. I also posted the 16 week boy shot and my 21 week boy shot. Am I crazy, lol....thank you
https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/130.jpg
https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/127.jpg
https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/126.jpg
https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/024.jpg
https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/parts2.jpg
https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/IMG_0001-3.jpg

 

[Sonyalouise]

Can you post pic without writing on?? X

 

[gigglebox]

Do you have the photo, NOT zoomed in? It make things kind of hard to tell what I'm looking at...but just looking at what you've circled, especially the third image, looks like a set of labia...

 

[youngmommy2]

I agree with gigglebox.. that looks like labia.. Is there anyway you can get a private 4d scan to make sure??

 

[staceyjc18]

Yer no writing would be easier to see I think. 3rd pic really does look like a girl though! x

 

[toddlerandpip]

Hard to tell with the writing etc but looks like a boy to me.

 

[Srrme]

It looks like a boy to me. The last picture looks very similar to my scan pictures.

 

[heatherlee06]

yes ladies, thank you for looking. I do have many without any writing on them, I guess I was trying to make sure I was looking at the right thing, lol. I will post a few more, but it will take a few minutes. I am just really confused, I have 6 children, and I am high risk, so I had many, many, scans done. My boys never looked like this, text book turtle shots. My girls a little harder to tell..........but this is odd, every baby is different..

 

[Bumpywilliams]

I've read that the boys scrotum is often really high up and doesn't drop down sometimes properly until after birth.

 

[heatherlee06]

Thank you, I HOPE HE STILL A BOY. I just have this strange feeling I cant explain, when I call him by this name or shop for him, just a odd off feeling.

 

[heatherlee06]

theses are taking off my DVD, so they may not be perfect. Also, its very hard to get a good picture, because the baby is a umbilical cord mess. Its wrapped around his thigh, between his legs, its everywhere. But, here are a few more pictures I cant understand where his large boy part is hiding. I seen my other 4 boys almost every angle, position, and he is allot larger according to my boy shots..
https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/025.jpg
https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/035.jpg
https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/003.jpg
https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/038.jpg
https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/039.jpg
here is a example of his cord between his legs...................
https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/037.jpg

 

[heatherlee06]

the last photo, is to show how bad he is wrapped up in his cord..

 

[Girlnextdoor]

I can't tell, but if two separate techs said it was a boy, it probably IS a boy. If you are uneasy about it, I agree that you should go do a private gender scan to confirm. Mine only cost $39. Totally worth it

 

[heatherlee06]

39.00, I would jump on that. This one was a private scan, and it cost me 95.00 for 10 mins. OH said we could pay for another scan, he was with me both times he agree the scans looked off. I WOULD BE SO HAPPY boy, or girl, I DONT WANT ONE MORE THEN THE OTHER. My husband works construction, and we struggle a few months a year. That's why I been shopping now, IF it is a girl she will be wearing some very cute boy clothes, for about 2 months. Because mom and dad will be broke, lol.

 

[ProudMommie6]

The third picture on the first page looks very clear a I highly suggest you get 3D/4D scan done as it will help you know FOR SURE

 

[Anna B]

Yes grab a gender scan with at least a 4D peek.. that's what I did a few days ago and the sonographer showed me the 3 lines clearly that she's a Girl.. I would have liked a Boy but now I have seen her 4D I'm in Love x

PS my kids are similar ages, 15, 12, 13, 10, 8, 5 and 3

 

[heatherlee06]

omg, are kids are all almost the same age, how neat... this is my last little one too, this was a very shocking surprise. AFTER 2 TEENAGERS, you remember they grow up (lol)
I am thinking about booking another one. I did have 2 techs say boy, but I also had 2 say girl, but they were early scans. I just cant believe they didnt check the cord. IF they checked the cord and I seen even the smallest bulge for a scrotum, I would not deny it, or second guess it. Even at 12-13 weeks with my boys they had what appear to be a scrotum. This was my last son at 20 weeks, and my other boys where the same.
.https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/cTyw4fKdU6tQ6kFgVbNNu1xwLDCF3u2M_lg.jpg

 

[Kristin52]

I think a boy. xx

 

[BeachComber]

hmmm I am really puzzled by these photos. In some of them it clearly looks like a girl to me but I have no idea. I would get a 4d scan just to be sure hon!

 

[heatherlee06]

Here are a few more I have, I wrote on them for me, to make sure I am looking in the right spot. I also did it for my sister in law so she would understand the picture, lol. She couldn't tell the baby's head from its butt. But, theses are all between the legs, next to the umbilical cord.
https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/11uls.jpg
https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/10sad.jpg
https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/5f.jpg
https://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn193/heatherlb5/3vf.jpg