Hellooooo

[limpetsmum]

Hey everyone,
Thought i'd say a little hello on here, i joined earlier in the year when i fell pregnant & needed advice. BNeedless to say i got sooo much support from all the lovely girls on here, they really helped me through a tough time.
Ok, a little about me.
I'm 30, getting married in 5 weeks time . We lost our 1st baby in April 2009 at 7weeks. I had a D&C after the tablet option didn't work. Amazingly i fell pregnant again a period after a normal one post D&C only to loose that one at 8weeks+3days. although we had no indication of the loss until 10+2 (we had a scan at 7 weeks to check all was ok after the last time so at least we got to see our little bump this time!). Again i needed surgery.
We have now decided to wait, enjoy the wedding & each other & try again next year.
I have no idea how i'm going to wait that long, which is why i decided to come back on here for support & to make wtt friends

If it were up to me i'd start trying straight away, but my dear OH can't face loosing another one this year - the previous 2 nearly broke him! We also decided it would probably do my body the world of good to give it a rest for a while, so i'm on the pill.

Well enough waffle, hope to chat to some of you soon. Take care all xxx

 

[Sophie1205]

Aww so sorry to hear of your losses
But welcome to WTT xxx

 

[kit603]

I'm sorry to hear about your losses and I hope that you get your sticky bean soon, and I hope that you're WTT journey is nice and smooth

 

[Beltane]

Sounds like you've been through a lot! I think it's a great idea to give your body a time to rest. Welcome !!

 

[xLisax]

Sorry for your losses Welcome to WTT! Bet your extremley excited about your wedding!! xx

 

[Amygdala]

Welcome! I'm sorry to hear about your losses but I think you're dealing with well by giving yourselves and your body a break. Just one thought though: Have you thought about alternative contraception so you can let your body have a proper "rest" from all those hormones? Persona for example is quite safe and doesn't put anything into your system. Just a thought though. I hope you really enjoy your wedding and can regroup to then get that sticky bean!