Help, a possible oopsie!

[swood9]

Hi all, I haven't posted here in a long time but I think it's time!

Dh and I have been wtt and last wed we had an oopsie, so to speak. Starting yesterday I have been feeling some twinges on my lower right hand side of my abdomen.

If I did miraculously catch and eggy, which I realize it's more likely that I did not, my concern would be that I am on antidepressants. One in particular is not pregnancy safe and I know this because I came off it last time.

Any suggestions? Would you wait it out or stop taking them until af showed? I don't want to go mad for no reason and it's not pleasant to stop taking them cold turkey but I would not want to hurt a potential lo. And my pinching pains in my right side are scaring me...

 

[misspriss]

I would call your doctor and tell them that you might be pregnant and ask what they advise. Stopping that kind of medication should not be done lightly. I think you doctor would advise you on the best course of action.

 

[Rainbow2103]

I'm facing a potential oopsie myself but under different circumstances.

I wouldn't stop taking your medication as that is likely to be more harmful to you. If you do go on to get a BFP then I'd seek advice from your Doctor.

Many women drink/take medications in the days leading up to missing their AF so I don't think it would be too harmful.

Were you tracking your cycles at all? Any signs if you ov'd?

 

[swood9]

I wasn't tracking at all but my cycle is pretty regular and if I am being honest, the only time I am ever interested in db is around ov. So I have no way to know other than I am due for af around the 18th.

I hope your oopsie turns out how you want it.

Also, I think I will call my ob and just let her know I'm worried about it.

 

[Rainbow2103]

Thanks, you too.

We are in the hands of fate now lol!

 

[swood9]

Haha, yep! I can't lie, I would like to be pregnant. The thought of it just makes you want it! We were only waiting for financial reasons because we would like to save.

 

[Rainbow2103]

I was trying to use natural family planning methods and looks like I've had a wacky cycle

 

[justmeinlove]

How did these work out, if I can ask?

 

[Jay900]

I don't think the meds would hurt a potential lo at this stage, cause until the umbilical cord and placenta are formed baby gets it's nutrients from the you'll sack and not you.

 

[swood9]

Hey all, as an update I am still bfn and no af. Thinking I'm out, but fx for my bfp anywho!

 

[Rainbow2103]

I'll be 9 dpo tomorrow and will start testing then. Never got a bfp earlier than 11 dpo though

 

[swood9]

Af is due today. Still bfn this am. A line showed clear right away as the test was saturating but the disapeared. I've seen the indent show that way before but never like this. The internet says that's a negative.

 

[justmeinlove]

That's harsh!

 

[swood9]

Isn't it weird! Ever heard of that? It showed a strong line then disapeared very quickly.

 

[justmeinlove]

Um no. But i haven't taken many pregnancy tests maybe talk to dr?

 

[Rainbow2103]

What test was it?

 

[swood9]

It was a dollar store. After reading up on it, I have decided not to put any more thought into it.

Still no af. How are you ladies doing?

 

[george83]

Hi ladies I'm stalking your thread waiting for results, me and my oh had an oopsie of our own at the weekend just as I think I was ovulating so I'm here in the same boat waiting it out. Ds2 is only 7 months old so it's not something we'd have planned for now

 

[swood9]

Thanks for the stalk, george83. Hope it turns out for you like you want, keep updating!

 

[xjessibabyx]

Potential oopsie over here too! DD is only 7months old and im due to continue studying next month so wouldnt be ideal. Felt so crampy n back ache like af type pains for 3 days..dont know if its all in my head. Stalking for updates