Well.....i tried the MAM tiny dummy on her, and she used it! YAY!!!
Trouble is, when we put her to bed, it popped out every minute or so, So ended up with her sleeping next to me, me with a hand strategically placed next to her face to keep the dummy in. I had a dead arm and no sleep, she slept like the proverbial baby!
SO progress, as in it was less stressful as less crying, but she's not quite sussed her technique though yet. Onwards and upwards though!!!
Plus this need to suckle only seems to happen around midnight. After her middle of night feed etc, she is quite happy to go to sleep unaided. Weird..