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jennyh37

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Hi, this might take awhile!!!

My last lmp was around the 5th July, on the 13th august I had a ppt. On the 26th aug I had a brownish discharge that went pink but only when I wiped, not enough to even Mark a sanitary towel. On the 29th aug I had a scan which showed a sac and a fetal pole but no heartbeat. The midwife said I was about 5 weeks Which i was shocked cos i thought I was 7 weeks. There was no sign of any blood and they said sac measured 3 mm. They told me to rest and go bk in 2 weeks time.

I went back 2 weeks later for a rescan and the midwife that scanned me said that she couldn't get a good view, but she thought that the sac had started to collapse. And in another breath she said that the sac had grown but she couldn't see the fetal pole any more. So she was happy to say that it wasn't a viable pregnancy, they sent me home to miscarry naturally and go bk on 30th for another scan!!!!!

I just dont know what to do, or think. If she had said that she was 100% sure that it was over then I would get on with it but she said she was happy that really isn't enough for me. I hadn't had any bleeding or anything till Saturday then I had the same again bit pinkish discharge but only when i wiped, i kinda still feel pregnant but i don't know if it's just in my head as I really want to be. I have had 6 miscarriages over the last 4 years and I had a blighted ovum last year. But I do have 4 children. I am newly married and we would love to have a second child together. I'm finding it so hard.
Has anyone ever experienced this and gone on to have healthy baby???
 
She was happy to inform you?? what the heck? that was insensitive. Have they taken your blood for hcg? has it grown or diminish? I am sorry you are going thru this roller coaster of emotions :(
 
Seek a second opinion if you feel the first isn't good or the midwife isn't giving you the information you need for your peace of mind. I just got a second opinion for almost the same reason, and though my news wasn't good as far as keeping this one, I'm no longer scared since I had a doctor who was willing to explain what is happening, what my options are, and why some options aren't good.

It's so important to find someone who will give you answers to your questions, even if they aren't the answers you want to hear. Hopefully you will get fabulous news with a second opinion, but if not at least you may get a little more peace of mind.
 
So sorry you are going through this.... How insensitive of her to be happy?!?!? I definitely think a second opinion might be a good idea at least to give you a better explanation of what might be going on!
Sending you some big hugs!!!
:hugs::hugs:
 

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