help! go for number 3 or not?

[zaida]

Hello folks! Im so happy to have found you. I am 40 years old and have an almost 5 year old son, and a just turned 3 year old son. Here are all the reasons we should NOT go for number 3:

- not enough money
- both exhausted
- just feel Ive gotten a life back
- higher risks (over 40)
- DH does NOT want it

Heres the reason for going for number 3:

- I just want it! Emotionally....just simply want it....

Im trying, really trying to put it out of my mind...but no matter how I try, I cant....Im so at a loss as to what to do....

Thanks for any input - Im trying to become resolved and okay with not having another one...I know Im soooo lucky and blessed with my two....but I just cant "let it go"!

Ay advice?

THANKS!

Tamara Zaida

 

[Strawberries]

I'd talk to OH again and see if there's any wiggle room there; but if not then I think you'll just have to accept it. Completely understand where you're coming from though

 

[zaida]

Hi Strawberries! Thanks you for your response. I see you are in Glasgow - I live in Torrance, just north of Glasgow! Im American, my husband is Scottish. Great to be in touch!

If you get a moment, please see my quiz re my sons name - on my "intro post" - would love your perspective!