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[Rumpskin]

Congratulations darling, fab news.

Kisses for your little angel xxx

 

[NickyT75]

Please dont worry about what anyone else may or may not think hun

You are not trying to replace your daughter but as you said - things happen for a reason so this pregnancy is obviously meant to be.

Im so happy for you sweetheart & wish you all the happiness in the world as I know from experience how awful it is to lose your daughter.

I will pop into 1st trimester to follow your progress as you have given me some much needed hope xx

 

[Hevz]

Babe....this happened to me after losing our son Thomas. It took us 9months to conceive him and he was born at 34wks just 2 days after Xmas and only lived for 28hours.
I was horrified to feel sick etc just a couple of weeks later and found out just 6wks after we'd lost Thomas that I was pregnant again. I was scared....felt sooooooooooo guilty etc.


I gave birth on 3rd October at 35wks to a beautiful daughter who we called (sorry) Lauren. She was fine luckily and was my saviour.... as I'd previously also lost a daughter Rachael prematurely at 24wks who only lived for 17hours, I don't think I could have got over losing two children but Lauren gave me something to look forward to.

Lauren is now nearly 6 and I have another daughter Abi 4 and a son Toby 9months....and I'm expecting another baby in Feb.

I will never forget those children who we lost and have pictures up of them along with the other kids pictures. It was hard telling people that we were pregnant so soon after and I got really annoyed as people presumed we'd done it deliberately to "get over" Thomas which of course is crap (so beware and ignore these comments).


I hope all goes well for you babe....and so sorry for your loss too. Do you have a memory box? I find mine very comforting when I need to "think" about Rachael and Thomas


You know where I am if you want to pm me

 

[Mummy2Many]

Huge congratulations to you and James, sweetie! I'm so happy for you. as I've said... no-one will think you are trying to replace your little angel. And if people do... they aren't worth the time nor energy, so just ignore them. She'll always be with you but you still have to go on with your life. I will be hoping and praying that the next nine months go smoothly for you. Big congratulations, again!

 

[destiny27]

congrats hun, anyone who thinks you are trying to replace your daughter well their opinion doesnt really matter, I certainly wouldnt think you was trying to replace her.
congrats again

 

[Jemma_x]

Thank you all for your comments, they really have made me feel alot better and that i shouldnt feel guilty and that if anyone does think i am replacing lauren then they just dont matter so thank you all so much x

 

[LaDY]

Yey hunny a big congratulations to you!!!...and as far as other people are concerned...im sure they wouldn't think anything of it at all and even if they did its a time of happiness so don't let them get to you...enjoy the next 9months xxxx

 

[beckynbump25]

ooooh jemma im reeeallly happy for you i didnt notice untill you just told me.

im absolutely sure people won't think your trying to replace your little angel any way who gives a f**k what other people think hope you have a very happy nine months.
xx

 

[Emsi76]

What fab news!!! congrats! And nobody thinks ill of you! It's a tribute to your strength as a couple and to having your new baby of how strong you are!

COngrats!

 

[chrissie33]

Congrats hun, its no one elses business although people do seem to think they have a right to judge! From what I can see you deserve some happiness and of course nothing will replace your daughter, she will always be your first born and nothing will change that. Try to enjoy your pregnancy hun, will pop into 1st tri occasionally to see how you are getting on - good luck x

 

[wantababybump]

Congratulations hun!! Have a happy & healthy 9 months! xo

 

[bambikate]

Hi sweetheart, first of all, congratulations, wishing you a H&H 9 months. I dont think people will think that at all hun x x