BrokenfoREVer
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Okay...the title sound worse than it actually is.
Basically I'm looking for advice. FOB's father is an alcoholic & recently was arrested & prosecuted for drink driving (I think, either that or drunk in charge of a vehicle)
He was put on probation/parole (FOB wasn't clear) & placed on tag for 2 weeks. His court date was the 3rd of october, his tag was put on 1st of november. In the time between he continued to drink & had the police called on him again by FOB. I believe he was taken to the police station & released without charge.
He went off to the other end of the country. while drunk & was picked up by local police who took him to the local hospital as he'd fallen over or something.
Now, his tag came off this week & he's straight back to drinking, now he can go out at night again. Yesterday (sunday) he caused a lot of trouble at FOB's house, & FOB's mother threw him out. He stayed outside the house, shouting & growling & generally causing a scene. FOB's mother calls the police again.
Now here's where I'm confused. According to FOB, the police came, & his dad was laying on the ground refusing to get up. So the police called for back up. Cue riot van arriving & FOB's father being physically picked up & put in the car/van.... & taken to hospital??? I'm told the police officer informed FOB the custody sargent would not accept him 'in that state' & he was being taken to hospital to be watched by 2 police officers until he sobered up.
This morning (monday) FOB's father has called his mother from the hospital to ask if he can come home. No mention of the police or anything.
So here is where I'm confused & asking for advice. Why would the police take him to hospital instead of the police station to sober up? I thought you were put in a cell until you were in a fit state to be dealt with if you'd be arrested?
Is FOB lying to me about having his dad arrested to look better (he's worried about the impact his dad will have on me letting our son go to there house) This is a 69 yr old man we're talking about, does that have any impact? Ofc, I might be getting half a tale so FOB looks better too, but he's always been honest about stuff like this.
So, can anyone shed any light or help me? Thanks
ETA: FOB's father wasn't hurt or anything like that, just causing a scene, being threatening, disturbing the peace, stuff like that
Basically I'm looking for advice. FOB's father is an alcoholic & recently was arrested & prosecuted for drink driving (I think, either that or drunk in charge of a vehicle)
He was put on probation/parole (FOB wasn't clear) & placed on tag for 2 weeks. His court date was the 3rd of october, his tag was put on 1st of november. In the time between he continued to drink & had the police called on him again by FOB. I believe he was taken to the police station & released without charge.
He went off to the other end of the country. while drunk & was picked up by local police who took him to the local hospital as he'd fallen over or something.
Now, his tag came off this week & he's straight back to drinking, now he can go out at night again. Yesterday (sunday) he caused a lot of trouble at FOB's house, & FOB's mother threw him out. He stayed outside the house, shouting & growling & generally causing a scene. FOB's mother calls the police again.
Now here's where I'm confused. According to FOB, the police came, & his dad was laying on the ground refusing to get up. So the police called for back up. Cue riot van arriving & FOB's father being physically picked up & put in the car/van.... & taken to hospital??? I'm told the police officer informed FOB the custody sargent would not accept him 'in that state' & he was being taken to hospital to be watched by 2 police officers until he sobered up.
This morning (monday) FOB's father has called his mother from the hospital to ask if he can come home. No mention of the police or anything.
So here is where I'm confused & asking for advice. Why would the police take him to hospital instead of the police station to sober up? I thought you were put in a cell until you were in a fit state to be dealt with if you'd be arrested?
Is FOB lying to me about having his dad arrested to look better (he's worried about the impact his dad will have on me letting our son go to there house) This is a 69 yr old man we're talking about, does that have any impact? Ofc, I might be getting half a tale so FOB looks better too, but he's always been honest about stuff like this.
So, can anyone shed any light or help me? Thanks
ETA: FOB's father wasn't hurt or anything like that, just causing a scene, being threatening, disturbing the peace, stuff like that