to anyone reading this-advice well and truly welcomed. I am new to B&B and joined as my dh and I are ttc. I was really pleasantly surprised to see this section of B&B offering support for parents with older children.
A little about me:
I am 33 and my dh and I have a 7yr old son and a 13yr old daughter and have been together for 15yrs and married for 10.
My daughter has recently met a boy (age 14) same school year but attending different schools. She and her friend have been meeting up a few times with him and his friend. Today she asked if he could come over and meet us. Anyways-his parents dropped him off at our house and they have spent time together downstairs (i wouldn't let them upstairs). He seemed ok, was polite etc.
My husband and I feel stressed and don't know what we should and shouldn't be allowing. They seemed to be hugging and kissing a bit and we both felt uncomfortable about this. 13 seems very young for all this and I don't want to be encouraging it too much although don't want to push them together by discouraging them from being together!!
What do I do? am I being a Do I need to set rules and boundaries for when they are together or does this seem too strict?
Please give your opinions on this. I feel like I've been on a rollercoster of emotions today. It's horrible seeing my baby girl growing up so fast. Just want to do what's right but sometimes it's so hard to know!!
Helppp!
A little about me:
I am 33 and my dh and I have a 7yr old son and a 13yr old daughter and have been together for 15yrs and married for 10.
My daughter has recently met a boy (age 14) same school year but attending different schools. She and her friend have been meeting up a few times with him and his friend. Today she asked if he could come over and meet us. Anyways-his parents dropped him off at our house and they have spent time together downstairs (i wouldn't let them upstairs). He seemed ok, was polite etc.
My husband and I feel stressed and don't know what we should and shouldn't be allowing. They seemed to be hugging and kissing a bit and we both felt uncomfortable about this. 13 seems very young for all this and I don't want to be encouraging it too much although don't want to push them together by discouraging them from being together!!
What do I do? am I being a Do I need to set rules and boundaries for when they are together or does this seem too strict?
Please give your opinions on this. I feel like I've been on a rollercoster of emotions today. It's horrible seeing my baby girl growing up so fast. Just want to do what's right but sometimes it's so hard to know!!
Helppp!