LittleMinx
Finally Complete <3
- Joined
- Jan 16, 2011
- Messages
- 4,469
- Reaction score
- 0
Oh my gosh i just wanna scream and then cry
Last night i was super chuffed that AF was entering the building (spotting) which would mean by the time full flow was here today i would of had a 28 day cycle... This is my 1st proper period off the pill (since withdrawal bleed) so was expecting a screwy cycle. But nope my body has behaved for once.
Anyway onto this mornings lovely chat with my OH... I was just adjusting my ticker and my OH said about future due dates, so for 'fun' i checked... Then my OH proceeded to tell me that we should WAIT until december to TTC All because statistically children born September-March do better at school and he wants to give our children the best chances. Yes that's lovely!!! But we are 33 & 34 years old, he only has 1 testicle due to cancer 9 years ago and we are both slightly over weight... So some factors to making TTC slightly more challenging.
My heart dropped and I feel like my opinion means nothing, I mentioned that i had always wanted a summer baby (all mine are winter) But he is not budging.
Of course i will respect his opinion and hold off until december, but its made me feel so sad .. Its taken us a long time to decide on having another baby and i thought we were finally there.... But Noooooo! He has to move the flipping goal posts.
Sorry for the ranting post.. But i needed to just offload.
Last night i was super chuffed that AF was entering the building (spotting) which would mean by the time full flow was here today i would of had a 28 day cycle... This is my 1st proper period off the pill (since withdrawal bleed) so was expecting a screwy cycle. But nope my body has behaved for once.
Anyway onto this mornings lovely chat with my OH... I was just adjusting my ticker and my OH said about future due dates, so for 'fun' i checked... Then my OH proceeded to tell me that we should WAIT until december to TTC All because statistically children born September-March do better at school and he wants to give our children the best chances. Yes that's lovely!!! But we are 33 & 34 years old, he only has 1 testicle due to cancer 9 years ago and we are both slightly over weight... So some factors to making TTC slightly more challenging.
My heart dropped and I feel like my opinion means nothing, I mentioned that i had always wanted a summer baby (all mine are winter) But he is not budging.
Of course i will respect his opinion and hold off until december, but its made me feel so sad .. Its taken us a long time to decide on having another baby and i thought we were finally there.... But Noooooo! He has to move the flipping goal posts.
Sorry for the ranting post.. But i needed to just offload.