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[jenjens123]

Hi im 15 and been with my boyfriend 12months and we have just found out i am 3 months pregnant. We are both doing well at school and are concerned about the future. Please help.

 

[leeanne]

Have you told your parents yet?

If not, I would advise to do that as soon as possible honey.

 

[polo_princess]

What is it that your concerned about? I take it that your pregnancy is unplanned?

 

[moomin_troll]

Welcome to the site do you both want to keep the baby?no matter how old you are its always a good thing to think about your options

 

[jenjens123]

If told my parents and they say its our choice. the pregnancy is unplanned and we are still decidin about whether we should keep the baby. What do you think???

 

[moomin_troll]

well its good that you have told your parents and that they are being supportive which is more than my mum was at first lol and i was 19 when i found out i was pregnant.

These days there are ways and means to help you still get your education if you dont have a termination.

For a 15yr old you seem to be thinking about this and dealing with it very well.

We cant tell you what to do just ask yourself do you want a baby? its something you and you partner really need to talk about fast before its too late.

 

[jenjens123]

me and my partner have been discussing it and decided that we r going to keep the baby and bring it up as best as possible.

 

[moomin_troll]

if you feel you are both ready for this then congrats and im sure if you ever need to chat or any advice me and the lovely ladies on here will help as best we can

 

[jenjens123]

we really excited but nervous. how are you comin with your pregnancy. We r slightly concerned about financial problems.

 

[Mummy2B1806]

Hello hun & welcome,
Its good 2 hear u have told ur parent and im glad they are being supportive!
I wish u all the best with ur pregnancy and remember we are always here if u need to talk about anyhting,



Claire

 

[jenjens123]

one thing im struggling with is the morning sickness. I was sick every morning last week and it is getting harder.

 

[moomin_troll]

we really excited but nervous. how are you comin with your pregnancy. We r slightly concerned about financial problems.

Im really nervous but also as time flys i get really excited but more scaredlol but my Partner isnt bothered yet it will hit him when i go into labour lol

Up until just recently starting my maternity leave both me and my OH (other half) work full time and we are always broke lol are bills are very expensive but we have managaed to buy him all he will need when he decideds to join us.
At any age having a baby is a very scary time

 

[jenjens123]

One thing i am struggling with is morning sicknees. I was sick every morning last week and it is getting harder. I am going to book my first scan 2moz.

 

[moomin_troll]

i hated morning sickness i had it all day everyday lol up until i was 13 weeks then it went and came back around 17 weeks. One thing i will say is make sure you get lots of sleep as i am always so tired lol and to help you sleep a pillow between your knees haha

i dont have any cures for getting rid of sickness tho nothing helped me

And good luck at your scan its so weird seeing your baby on the screen moving around it didnt seem real for me

 

[jenjens123]

ok thanks, were not sure were we are going to live during the pregnancy and after but both sets of parents are being supportive

 

[jenjens123]

When did u start to show and have a bump

 

[moomin_troll]

i had a tiny bump starting around 12 weeks and it became noticeable around 15 weeks thats when i felt his first kick by 20 weeks i had a small neat bump now im 30 weeks my bump isnt huge but its big lol

You could go to the council and see what kind of help you can get off them but i think it might be best if you stay at home for as long as you can so its easier for you to continue with your education although they might send you to college to finish high school where they have a nursery for your baby

 

[jenjens123]

im only 3 months and i get so tired which is draining me

 

[moomin_troll]

i was knackered in my first trimester and its supposed to get better in the second but for me ive just got more and more tired,im so glad i can stay in bed all day for afew weeks. I really wanted to do yoga and as times gone on i wish i started earlier i bought a dvd 6 weeks ago and havent opened it yet so i would suggest if your interested after 14 weeks start doing exercise it will help support your back because mine is constantly killing me lol and it will help with labour

 

[lfc_sarah]

The sickness subsides babe

Congratulations if your keeping the baby