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[Sunshine14]

Thanks Luv and Oasis xx feeling bit better now - just waiting for it all to happen and no sign of it yet -- feels like forever I have to say. Tough week really but will take the weekend to adjust and get my head around what is coming. I really feel like a glass of wine but keep thinking what if they were wrong!! Crazy I know ........

Anyway how are u to ladies both doing? Any good news from either of you? xx

I'm glad you are feeling a bit better. It really just takes time. Not much to report here. Cd 7 after my cp & spotting. Af was terrible! I expect to o around cd 16. We will see what happens from there. I remember my first mc it took weeks to bleed once it was confirmed. I hope your moves along quickly. Limbo is a terrible place to be.

Thanks Luv you are right the waiting really is the worst part and not knowing when or where it is going to happen. I found after all my cp's that I didn't O the next month and then the month after got PG again with all 3 - all v strange! Fingers xd for you this cyce that u get ur rainbow baba xx

 

[Oasis717]

How are you now? I've just had my second cp in 6 months xxxxxx

 

[LuvallmyH]

How are you now? I've just had my second cp in 6 months xxxxxx

Sorry. It's just heartbreaking!

 

[Oasis717]

I know isn't it xxxx

 

[Sunshine14]

How are you now? I've just had my second cp in 6 months xxxxxx

Ahh Oasis I'm so sorry to hear that sending you some big hug I know how tough it is having chemicals and I hate to say it hun but it really is part of the territory when ttc at our age doesn't make it any easier I know!! I know it is also not going to make your sadness any easier but at least you are getting pregnant - that's a really positive thing hun xx The only thing I can say from experience is try not to get too emotionally invested in the pregnancy until you know it's all looking good - easy to say and tough to do but if you want that rainbow baba again it could be a tough hard, journey babe!! and you have to hang in there xx sending you big hugs babe xxxxxxx

Afm feel like I could sleep for a week - emotionally and physically wrecked! Nothing happened for approx 2 weeks after I last updated, the wait was awful, so went back to hospital last Friday and had another scan and pregnancy still growing but fetal pole same size and no hb. Decided to take tablets to get it started so took tablets and bleeding for past 6 days. I went back to work today after 3 days off as needed to get a routine going again and sorry for TMI! but I think I passed the sac walking back from the tube - this evening - yikes!! Sat here now, knowing I should be resting but with a big bl**dy glass of wine just because I can!! and tastes great! I feel relief that at least the end is in sight finally with this mc

Anyway luv how are you doing hun? Any positive news from you babe to cheer us up?

-- You know ladies it is lovely to have you both to chat to -- you both really understand the whole trying to conceive with the chemicals / mc's, etc and we should keep each other company until we hopefully get our 3 rainbow babas! xxxx

 

[LuvallmyH]

I'm sorry things didn't move along naturally, but glad you aren't in limbo anymore.
I am 5dpo & just waiting for some ic's to arrive to start testing. I swore I would not test early anymore because it's heartbreaking, but I am who I am. I started a journal if you want ot follow my progress.

 

[Oasis717]

Sunshine thanks so much, I've been feeling quite down and worrying if I will be able to have any more babies it so so helps to talk to people that understand, I'm so sorry you're going through this right now, sending you loads of luv xxxxxx bd has just started this end! Def gunna take your advice and until I know its going somewhere gunna not get too emotionally attached if its possible, easier said than done I know of course, no testing early for me anymore though not til AF is due! Xxxxxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Oh and definitely love to stick around and we can keep each other company xxxxxx
Good luck with testing luv, I just can't test early after this last chemical but I can still get excited for you! Let us know xxx

 

[LuvallmyH]

I'm hopeful we will all have our rainbows

 

[LuvallmyH]

Sadly I'm having yet another one. Test are from yesterday. Today's are pretty much bfn.


I was getting faint lines on ic & $ store tests for a few days. Frer finally turned bfp yesterday 12dpo. I was skeptical. Looks like it was for a good reason.

 

[Oasis717]

Oh no I'm so so sorry I really am, its heartbreaking xxxxxxxx

 

[Sunshine14]

Sadly I'm having yet another one. Test are from yesterday. Today's are pretty much bfn.
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I was getting faint lines on ic & $ store tests for a few days. Frer finally turned bfp yesterday 12dpo. I was skeptical. Looks like it was for a good reason.

So sorry to hear that Luv. Hope you are ok - sending you big hugs make sure you look after yourself and take it easy xx that is the tough part about testing early! But same as Oasis & me having cp's at least u know ur body is trying to get that golden egg!! Doesn't make it any easier but you are definitley very fertile hun xx After my second CP I said I wasn't going to test early any more as I was soo disappointed as I really thught it wouldn't happen twice in a row. But it is hard not to do as you just want to know & actually I do test early now as the way I look at it is knowledge is power and at least by testing early u know ur getting PG, ur body is very fertile and trying to catch that good egg!! U just have to really train urslef to not get too excited until u see a hb / get to 12 weeks -- really, really tough Even with my recent mmc they saw a flicker at 6 weeks so I did start getting a bit excited and OH was v. happy but they couldn't confirm hb & then no hb at 7 weeks. I was pissed off being PG so long & sad but not too bad emotionally as I just didn't let myself celebrate the PG. As Oasis said there is definitley that fear that there won't be a good egg and really ladies we just have to have hope and support each other through it!! & keep each other positive - CP's & mc's suck but each of us is very fertile & that is how u catch the good egg!!! A lady on another thread I am on just had a baby at 43.5 followng mc so there is hope!! Anyway enough ramblings from me - take care ladies and stay positive and believe we will get our rainbows xx & tons of BD - I am just O around now I think I started BDing last Friday (on our 11 year anniversary!) so we shall see if that brought me luck xxxx take care xx

 

[Oasis717]

Sunshine what lovely words, I hope with all my heart we all get our rainbows, you are right we are very lucky in that we are getting pregnant, now we just need those golden eggs we have to believe it cause there is always hope and we have every chance! I'm at 2dpo just waiting for CH tomorrow if my temps up again and o dayand the day before was when we bd the most so here's hoping xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Sunshine14]

Hey Oasis good to hear from you x we will just have to keep each other positive and when one of us is despairing look out for each other xx this cycle sounds promising for you hun sounds like ur BD was perfectly timed! *Fingers xd for you this month and it is a sticky bean xx

 

[LuvallmyH]

Af was due toady. I did take another test yesterday and it's still bfp. Just no progression at all. I hate being in limbo wondering how long it's going to take. Then hoping it does not mess up my cycle too much. My dh is being very supportive about trying again so that's great.

I'm so excited for both of you! I really hope this one is the "golden" egg! Please keep updating. Are either of you testing early? I have kind of sworn that off!

 

[Oasis717]

Thank you sunshine, it makes all the difference to have you lovely ladies support, it can feel a bit lonely TTC after losses well for me as we haven't even told our family about the two CP's so whilst I wish things were different for us all its so nice to have people that understand definitely we must stay positive we will get our rainbows! Xxxx
Luv limbo land is awful, my two CP's took relatively short times to start AF first time 3 days late last cycle just one day late, really hope you haven't got to wait too long xxxxx

 

[LuvallmyH]

My line was darker again today I hate the waiting. How long were your tests bfp before af came? Did the finally go bfn? There are so many things out of our control ttc & I don't know if you are like me. It's driving me slightly crazy! And I don't need help there, lol!

 

[Oasis717]

Lol I know that feeling!!!! Both times I got a faint faint line at 9/10 dpo but testing the following days the line was either the same or lighter until it was barely there before AF and gone after, it never got darker though hunni, only times my tests have darkened were with my youngest, before that and before I found b n b I only did one test so with my 12 and 11 week losses I've no idea what the progression would of been xxxxxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Luv I don't wanna raise your hopes but if your test is darker today perhaps its not a cp? When I had mine I googled for hours and there were many ladies who's tests took awhile to progress that went on to have healthy pregnancies, sorry but I can't help hoping for you xxxxx

 

[LuvallmyH]

Today on top, yesterday on bottom.