Higher chance of chemicals over 35?

[Sunshine14]

Hi Ladies how are you all doing?

Luv how is that little baba cookig in there? Good I hope xx hope ur well hun xx

Nikki how did you get on did u manage to get any bding in around O? Also how were ur results hun?

Sis sorry to hear that - I know it is a sorrying time & sorry for ur losses hope u get a sticky bean soon x

Afm - got negative test finally yesterday - we are ntnp this month so will see what happens - I don't tend to O after mc so not holding out much hope - the doctor said it was an 8% chance of another ectopic so something else to worry about when ttc but I'm goign to just forget about it and go with the flow .....

 

[Nikki1979]

Hi sunshine, how are you feeling now?

I didn't get to bed around ovulation last month - am currently on CD 9 today and starting getting highs on my ovulation metre. Should be ovulating in the next couple of days.

My appointment went well. Everything was perfect with DH's Semen Analysis. Since everything seems to be okay with me and DH according to bloods, the fertility specialist wants me to do a Laparoscopy and uterine biopsy to check if there are any issues that could be preventing implantation. I decided to go via the public route so will have to wait 4-6 months for it. Hoping I get pregnant before that..am really scared to get any procedures done. I will be 36 in 3 months ..hoping I get a BFP as a birthday gift.

 

[Sunshine14]

Hey Nikki glad all ur tests went well that 4-6 months will fly by but fingers cd u get ur bfp before then. I had my first child at 34 and then my second at 38 & my third at 40 so if ur only just approaching 36 you have loads of time yet to get your little fella a brother or sister xx

Luv how are you hun? We need an update! Hoping all good with u xx

Afm - got the witch today -- first one after ectopic so i'm happy to be back on track and relieved that my body has had a chance to heal. I will see what 2015 holds PG wise. We are currently house hunting and I'm mad busy at work so plenty of distractions!!

 

[LuvallmyH]

Everything is going smoothly so far. 100% sure he's a boy. We had the cell free dna testing & everything came back healthy. What a relief! I'm 17 weeks & feeling a little bit of movement. I have another anterior placenta so not as much as I would like to feel. I have my anatomy scan in a week and a half. Excited to see him again. My back & pelvis are starting to act up and I know it's going to get so bad I'll be immobile by the end.
Here is a bump pic if you want to see it

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I hope you get your bfp before all those procedures Nikki!
I hope 2015 brings you a sticky bfp sunshine. House hunting is exciting and stressful for sure!

 

[Sunshine14]

Hey Luv glad to hear all going well hun xx u have a lovely baby bump developing there sweetie - did u go for another scan since I last checked in? Hope everything good? Are u going to find out the sex even though u think it is team blue?

Hey Nikki how are you doing hun? What cd are you at now? Any news from u hun? HOpe ur well xxx

Afm - positive opk tonight so we have been dtd (especially as it's valentines day)! We found a house last weekend and put an offer in so very excited about that - its in a lovely area and big garden and we will add an extension to the back and into the loft to creat some more space - very exciting!! Just have to do the legal stuff now .....

Anyway kisses to u both xx

 

[Oasis717]

Carmel I can't message you back on hot mail once again I don't know why it keeps doing that! Hope you're OK. Me and dh have decided to wait 2 months before trying again, (sorry you other ladies won't know but I just had a mc at 6 weeks) for two reasons really, one I really, really want to be a healthy weight when we try again and two we are going away with friends on the 24th April and I really don't want to be stressing about needing the loo every 5 mins and not drinking etc, its our first holiday in years so we've decided to wait until after I hope everyone is OK. Luv I'm so pleased all is so well with you xxxxxx

 

[LuvallmyH]

I hope you catch that golden egg Oasis!

So sorry Sunshine. I hope a little break is just what you need.

I had my anatomy scan today at 18w 6d. Everything is perfect! He's still a boy - which was confirmed with the cell free dna testing we had done. So genetically & chromosomally he is 100% healthy. I am very relieved and of course happy!
A few pics




I think we are naming him Hawkin

 

[Oasis717]

Luv that's amazing I'm so happy for you and I love the name! Can I ask what the testing you had done was and did you have to have it privately? Xxxxx

 

[LuvallmyH]

Luv that's amazing I'm so happy for you and I love the name! Can I ask what the testing you had done was and did you have to have it privately? Xxxxx

I'm not exactly sure what it was called. The dr called it a cell free dna test. You can have it starting at 10 weeks, I had mine at 12w 6d. It was just my blood. It took 2 weeks to get the results. It told us the baby did not have down syndrom and an additional 4 or so chromosomal defects. It also tells you the gender. Our insurance covered it because of my age, but I am hearing it's upward of $2000 if it isn't covered. It's in place of having an amnio or cvs. Worth every penny if you ask me. I had it done with my last pregnancy and had to pay for it. Although, 2 years ago it did not tell you the gender or as many defects. It was done through through my ob when I went for my 12 week scan.

 

[Oasis717]

Thank you, its called the Harmony test over here and it costs £500, sounds amazing xxxx

 

[Sunshine14]

Luv I'm so happy for u that it's all going well and a beatiful baby boy - Hawkin is a fab name as well - stay healthy sweetie ad ur little rainbow will be here before u know it xx

Becks got ur message xx do what u want sweetie re waiting & enjoy ur hols xxx

 

[Sunshine14]

PS Hope ur doing well Nikki xx