FizzleBob
On A Break!
- Joined
- Mar 29, 2009
- Messages
- 94
- Reaction score
- 0
Hello there
Well so far our story goes like...
3 Months ago, we decided to try for another.
I came off the pill.
So far I havent as such, charted, I just know my cycle is around 30days as I marked it on the calendar the first and last day of AF.
Last month, was in such a busy mode with DS overdue injections that I just didn't mark it on our calendar.
Now, talking to my friend, she's kind of helped me to ask the OH questions and i've realised, I was 'on' on my OH's birthday, 1st March. He nor I, can remember the FIRST or LAST day. Just that I was 'on' on his birthday. I was sat thinking, and I asked 'Are you sure it wasnt the Sunday after your birthday?' (8th March) We're totally confused as to when she was actually here!
But even so, if my cycle is 30days, and I was 'on' on the 8th, this cycle is 37 days.. and if I was 'on' on the 1st, its currently 43days.
So heres what I want advice on, I got all excited and couldnt stop smiling until the OH shot me down and said "Dont get your hopes up, wait until the tests arrive" (Ive ordered some off t'internet, which arent getting posted til tomorrow!!!!)
Im DESPERATE to know as im so excited, should I buy a test and sneak off to do it? Without telling him?
Shall I do as he says and 'wait' until they arrive?
I REALLY need advice.. PLEASE What would you do in my situation? I can't believe I didnt even realise until now..
Any advice, i'd be VERY greatful!
Thank you
Well so far our story goes like...
3 Months ago, we decided to try for another.
I came off the pill.
So far I havent as such, charted, I just know my cycle is around 30days as I marked it on the calendar the first and last day of AF.
Last month, was in such a busy mode with DS overdue injections that I just didn't mark it on our calendar.
Now, talking to my friend, she's kind of helped me to ask the OH questions and i've realised, I was 'on' on my OH's birthday, 1st March. He nor I, can remember the FIRST or LAST day. Just that I was 'on' on his birthday. I was sat thinking, and I asked 'Are you sure it wasnt the Sunday after your birthday?' (8th March) We're totally confused as to when she was actually here!
But even so, if my cycle is 30days, and I was 'on' on the 8th, this cycle is 37 days.. and if I was 'on' on the 1st, its currently 43days.
So heres what I want advice on, I got all excited and couldnt stop smiling until the OH shot me down and said "Dont get your hopes up, wait until the tests arrive" (Ive ordered some off t'internet, which arent getting posted til tomorrow!!!!)
Im DESPERATE to know as im so excited, should I buy a test and sneak off to do it? Without telling him?
Shall I do as he says and 'wait' until they arrive?
I REALLY need advice.. PLEASE What would you do in my situation? I can't believe I didnt even realise until now..
Any advice, i'd be VERY greatful!
Thank you