cooper2010
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Heres the story about my situation. I will try to keep it short with giving as much detail as I can.
My 2nd grader is struggling in school. She actually had issues in Kindergarten and 1st grade but the school kept urging me to send her on in hopes that she would get the help she needed.
Now she gets extra help in reading and math. She is currently reading at a 1st grade level. (So she is about 3-4 levels behind in just reading) She also goes to speech therapy once per week. (She was leveled as a 6yr old for speech).
Myself and the teacher filled out reports on behavior to see if anything stuck out, like learning diabilities. The test concluded that she has border line results. This was just a test, not a formal evaluation.
I do not think my daughter has a learning disability, and even if she does, it may just be so minor. She has been making some progress in school even though its slow. She does not qualify for special ed because her testing scores aren't low enough.
Here is the problem. I have the option to hold back my daughter so she can go through 2nd grade again next year. I feel like she wil be more confident and she can get where she needs to be for reading and math. I also feel like if I send her to 3rd grade we will be in the same situation again...with the need for extra help and struggling the whole year.
My mind is not set yet, that is why I am asking for some opinions. I want to make sure I am doing the best thing for her. By the way, I have mentioned this to her, she knows that it is a possibility that she will stay behind and as of right now she says she is not ready for 3rd grade. (I think she is just nervous though). I just don't know what to do in this situation. Its pretty important!
My 2nd grader is struggling in school. She actually had issues in Kindergarten and 1st grade but the school kept urging me to send her on in hopes that she would get the help she needed.
Now she gets extra help in reading and math. She is currently reading at a 1st grade level. (So she is about 3-4 levels behind in just reading) She also goes to speech therapy once per week. (She was leveled as a 6yr old for speech).
Myself and the teacher filled out reports on behavior to see if anything stuck out, like learning diabilities. The test concluded that she has border line results. This was just a test, not a formal evaluation.
I do not think my daughter has a learning disability, and even if she does, it may just be so minor. She has been making some progress in school even though its slow. She does not qualify for special ed because her testing scores aren't low enough.
Here is the problem. I have the option to hold back my daughter so she can go through 2nd grade again next year. I feel like she wil be more confident and she can get where she needs to be for reading and math. I also feel like if I send her to 3rd grade we will be in the same situation again...with the need for extra help and struggling the whole year.
My mind is not set yet, that is why I am asking for some opinions. I want to make sure I am doing the best thing for her. By the way, I have mentioned this to her, she knows that it is a possibility that she will stay behind and as of right now she says she is not ready for 3rd grade. (I think she is just nervous though). I just don't know what to do in this situation. Its pretty important!