FJL
Heartbroken after m/c
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After 2 follow up calls to the clinic today I finally got my results.
The nurse (and not my fave nurse) said that HCG had dropped right off but that other levels were up (well I have been back on crinone...) and that she had left a message on FS's phone for him to call back and see what he wants me to do. Because it seems I can't speak with him unless I fork out $120 for a phone consult (which medicare covers none of ) I asked her to tell him that i'm pretty sure i'm going to have AF when my lap is booked in and what I can do about changing dates. We were booked in for public (with FS doing it at a public hospital) for only $300 hospital fee but I don't know when his next public dates are and I don't want to wait any longer than when it was originally booked for. We aren't in a fund but will pay private because we're sick of waiting! FET won't be till early November as it is and I don't want to push that back even further.
I actually feel a strange sense of relief. I think for 2 reasons. 1 is because AF came before BETA and I really grieved what felt like a loss and 2 I was told that it was probably unviable and if it did carry on that it would be very high risk, so it would've been very stressful knowing that.
Anyway, we'll see what FS comes back with...
Thanks girls for all your support and thoughts
The nurse (and not my fave nurse) said that HCG had dropped right off but that other levels were up (well I have been back on crinone...) and that she had left a message on FS's phone for him to call back and see what he wants me to do. Because it seems I can't speak with him unless I fork out $120 for a phone consult (which medicare covers none of ) I asked her to tell him that i'm pretty sure i'm going to have AF when my lap is booked in and what I can do about changing dates. We were booked in for public (with FS doing it at a public hospital) for only $300 hospital fee but I don't know when his next public dates are and I don't want to wait any longer than when it was originally booked for. We aren't in a fund but will pay private because we're sick of waiting! FET won't be till early November as it is and I don't want to push that back even further.
I actually feel a strange sense of relief. I think for 2 reasons. 1 is because AF came before BETA and I really grieved what felt like a loss and 2 I was told that it was probably unviable and if it did carry on that it would be very high risk, so it would've been very stressful knowing that.
Anyway, we'll see what FS comes back with...
Thanks girls for all your support and thoughts
I'm not sure what to think either sweetie. I sent you a text earlier, I guess DH got it instead of you? - Well I think what you've said is right. Even if you did get a bfp you couldn't relax and enjoy the pregnancy because of the stress...which is turn causes more stress!
