mumatmadhouse
number 6 on the way!
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Hello all,
I am hoping for a little advice/wisdom/support from anyone who has birthed at home with other kids around! This is baby number 5 for me. My first 3 babies were born in hospital and my youngest at a birthing centre. Birth centre was planned this time but I have been considering a HB due to it being complicated getting childcare sorted. Anyway it is looking more and more like we will have problems when the time comes so a HB would make a lot more sense from that point of veiw.
My problem is that I am nervous about a HB. I have 2 dogs that are great but bark constantly at strangers in the house to begin with and 3 of my children still live at home, we have a very lively house. I know that I make noise when birthing, and a fair bit of it, and am worried about the kids being scared or upset by it or just plain grossed out, as well as the dogs barking constantly and stressing me out during labour! I dont want to sound selfish but I would like as relaxed a labour as possible and at the moment I am getting more and more stressed about it each day.
What do you ladies think? How did your others kids find it when you birthed at home? How did you organise things once in labour if you live in a very busy house? Any advice gratefully received
I am hoping for a little advice/wisdom/support from anyone who has birthed at home with other kids around! This is baby number 5 for me. My first 3 babies were born in hospital and my youngest at a birthing centre. Birth centre was planned this time but I have been considering a HB due to it being complicated getting childcare sorted. Anyway it is looking more and more like we will have problems when the time comes so a HB would make a lot more sense from that point of veiw.
My problem is that I am nervous about a HB. I have 2 dogs that are great but bark constantly at strangers in the house to begin with and 3 of my children still live at home, we have a very lively house. I know that I make noise when birthing, and a fair bit of it, and am worried about the kids being scared or upset by it or just plain grossed out, as well as the dogs barking constantly and stressing me out during labour! I dont want to sound selfish but I would like as relaxed a labour as possible and at the moment I am getting more and more stressed about it each day.
What do you ladies think? How did your others kids find it when you birthed at home? How did you organise things once in labour if you live in a very busy house? Any advice gratefully received