sophisticat
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My partner and I live with a friend, his room is on the top floor and ours is on the middle floor, all of our names are on the rental contract and we split bills and rent three ways but in reality it's more like "our" house, and he is like a lodger. I really want a home birth and the only thing that's worrying me is him being around. I don't really get on with him very well (even more so since I've been pregnant, maybe it's hormones or I resent him being in what I feel like should be a family home) although my other half is pretty good friends with him, but he mostly keeps himself to himself and I don't tend to see him that much other than passing through a room or hallway.
Unfortunately we're not in a position to move out without him and we can't kick him out as his name is on the contract. We asked him what he intends to do once the baby arrives and he says he's staying put for now, so looks like I'm going to have to put up with the living arrangements for the time being.
Obviously I'd have to ask him what he thinks, but he's fairly open minded and friendly enough (even when I've been a horrible cow to him through my pregnancy!).
Anyway, I guess the question is, does anyone have any experience of having a home birth with a lodger or housemate around?
Unfortunately we're not in a position to move out without him and we can't kick him out as his name is on the contract. We asked him what he intends to do once the baby arrives and he says he's staying put for now, so looks like I'm going to have to put up with the living arrangements for the time being.
Obviously I'd have to ask him what he thinks, but he's fairly open minded and friendly enough (even when I've been a horrible cow to him through my pregnancy!).
Anyway, I guess the question is, does anyone have any experience of having a home birth with a lodger or housemate around?