Hoping to get lucky tonight!

[AngelUK]

Heh, this makes me so jealous. We haven't had sex since I got my BFP and I am too shy to ask for any. I have the sweetest most loving OH but I don't think he overly desires me at the best of time. Before I got pregnant we used to do it maybe once, twice a month if I got lucky. I asked him about it and he says he just doesn't have much of a sex drive any more. He does watch a lot of porn though but that doesn't bother me. I'd much rather he watched that then go out and cheat. Now that I am pregnant and I feel so vastly huge next to his skinny and snakey-hipped person, there is no way I am going to ask him. He might oblige but from experience I know where obliging me can lead. And I don't think my fragile self esteem can take it

 

[pooch]

I actually asked for it this morning with no response. Took a shower, came out and checked the web history and he was watchingnporn while i was in the shower. I confronted him and he said he didnt do it. I know he did at what time and what site, his face was bright red when he denied it. I also know he was looking when i was taking a nap yesterday. I started crying and said that i just wouldnt ask for the next six months since my ego couldnt take rejection anymore.
Before getting preg we used to do it once a month or so...he also claimed low sex drive. Does someone with low drive watch porn every day??? Wtf??

 

[AngelUK]

pooch I wondered that same thing too!! He says his low sex drive has nothing to do with how I look (slightly too round in places before pregnancy) and that he thinks I am gorgeous (even now) etc but how can I believe that when he never "wants" me?

 

[Jaylynne]

Yikes! I watch porn and so does DH, but before pregnancy we wouldn't choose porn over each other. You don't watch porn every day if you have a low drive. Sorry. That's fishy. Pooch, he deserves a talking to!
Porn shouldn't be an alternative to cheating either. I'm fine with DH watching porn because we have a healthy relationship, but I wouldn't be happy if I were being denied and found porn. Totally not cool. Hoping this doesn't turn into a porn thread though

 

[pooch]

Sorry if im obsessing ill stop commenting in this thread

 

[Jaylynne]

No no pooch it's fine. Porn threads just tend to get heated. I'd be upset too if my DH did that

 

[CazM 2011]

With lubrication it can be different on the inside as what it feels like on the outside and what you described sounded exactly how I felt when we tried to have sex a couple of months ago, this may be tmi but when we didn't use lots of foreplay I was never lubricated enough, quickies are out the question unfortunately. We've only just started having regular sex again at almost 23 weeks think my OH thought it had been cut off lol xx

 

[BleedingBlack]

We DTD last night and the night before. Hoping for it again tonight. Once I get farther along in pregnancy, chances are I'll be on bedrest.